HEY I JUST RECENTLY LOST MY VIRGINITY 2 DAYS AGO ACTUALLY AN I AM REALLY SCARED B/C I WHEN I PEE IT BURNS AN IT KINDA HURTS LIKE A REAL SMALL PAIN WHEN I WALK WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?!?!? I CAN'T TELL MY MOM BUT I'M REALLY SCARED AN NEED 2 TALK 2 A GIRL WHO CAN RELATE OR HAS INFO ON MY PROBLEM PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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Well I'm not a girl, but he probably broke your hymen, and that's why you're experiencing those pains. They should go away by themselves in a couple of days. If not, something serious may have happened to your sexual organs, and it is wise to go see a doctor, preferably a gynecologist. You don't have to be 18 or have your parent with you to go see one.
If you're worried about being pregnant, than you shouldn't worry that much. If you used a condom or some other form of contraception you should be okay for the most part if you used it correctly. Symptoms of pregnancy would not appear in a couple days after sexual intercourse anyways.
Best of luck to you
If you're worried about being pregnant, than you shouldn't worry that much. If you used a condom or some other form of contraception you should be okay for the most part if you used it correctly. Symptoms of pregnancy would not appear in a couple days after sexual intercourse anyways.
Best of luck to you
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i am a gurl and i experienced those pains when i first lost my virginity.. The burning when you pee is because of where your vagina is so small it rubbed that skin raw while he was penitrating in and out so it's nothing to worry about ok.. The pain is because he broke your hymen, and those pains have probaley already disappeared but make sure your have protected sex because you could end up pregnant and if you have anymore questions just put um on here okay?
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i have a question.. i just lost my virginity im 16 an really scared that i could be pregnant.. it was unprotected ( yea i know stupid ) but it jus happened.. he pulled out everytime before he came .. but im scared about this pre-cum business. its 3 days later an im still feelin real wierd lik abdomin pain and i keep yawning but im not really tired an lower back pain but my boobs dont hurt or anythin an no nausea..maybe im jus gettin myself worked up because im so scared .. an my body is just reacting to that maybe ?? an my period isnt supose to come for another 2-3 weeks.. idk but sooo worried!!helppp pleasee!!!!
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Well I recently lost my virginity. And we used protection and the next day I had a really bad odor. But we are both clean what does this mean
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You may be reacting to the condom. Sometimes we may be allergic to the material in the condom. Do you feel itching or burning when you pee?
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First of all, withdrawl or pull out as many refer to it as, is not a form of birth control and really shouldn't be used as such. A young man has to have a very strong will to "pull out" at just the right time and it's even harder to this when he is very inexperienced. You are less likely to become pregnant via pre cum alone, tho many have insisted that they have. Pre cum and ejaculate are at two different ends of the spectrum.
The pain in your tummy may be from the sexual act itself, no worries there. And your yawning is probably due to being tired from stressing yourself out. Your period is due in 2-3 weeks, you have to be more explicit as that one week can make all the difference in the world as far as your ovulation is concerned.
As it stands right now, i would say that your not pregnant, just my own feeling.
In the meantime, do yourself a hugh favor and look into birth control. Visit your local Planned Prenthood, and tell bf that they give condoms away, for FREE. Grab yourself a handful and give them to him, you'll be saving the both of you a lot of undue aggrivation in the future.
The pain in your tummy may be from the sexual act itself, no worries there. And your yawning is probably due to being tired from stressing yourself out. Your period is due in 2-3 weeks, you have to be more explicit as that one week can make all the difference in the world as far as your ovulation is concerned.
As it stands right now, i would say that your not pregnant, just my own feeling.
In the meantime, do yourself a hugh favor and look into birth control. Visit your local Planned Prenthood, and tell bf that they give condoms away, for FREE. Grab yourself a handful and give them to him, you'll be saving the both of you a lot of undue aggrivation in the future.
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Bbfeet9 is your replying to my question babyo369. Thank you so much! I think your right cause after I showered the smell was gone and I don't have it today..! So thank you. I was getting scared. Any other suggestion not just from bbfeet9. But anybody else please feel free. And another question..how's a good way to stay clean without going to the gyno. Cause I'm 17. And can't go to gyno without mom
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The best way to stay clean is with good old fashioned soap and water. You don't need to douche and you don't need one of those fancy vaginal deoderant sprays either, which by the way can GIVE you an infection. A daily bath or shower is all you need to keep your business clean and healthy. You should lather up down there after any sexual contact and keep your self neatly trimmed. An abundance of pubic hair traps sweat and moisture causing the itchies and scratchies.
As far as needing mom to assisit you with a visit your gyno, in some cases this is not true, depending on where you live. Here in NYS, a young lady can see her doctor with no worries that mom/dad will find out. It is called the HIPA LAW and it has been in affect here for several years now.
Check out your local Planned Parenthood. They are trained professionals that will assist you with anything including, education, physicals, pregnancy issues, family planning, std's, birth control (for both of you) and worst case scenario, abortions.
As far as needing mom to assisit you with a visit your gyno, in some cases this is not true, depending on where you live. Here in NYS, a young lady can see her doctor with no worries that mom/dad will find out. It is called the HIPA LAW and it has been in affect here for several years now.
Check out your local Planned Parenthood. They are trained professionals that will assist you with anything including, education, physicals, pregnancy issues, family planning, std's, birth control (for both of you) and worst case scenario, abortions.
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Thanks again your a big help bbfeet9!!:-D I stay clean I shower everyday. But I had sex for the first time and I had the ordor so I was scared but you helped alot thanks!! And about the gyno idk cause I live in Houston. But thanks for the advice. :-D
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Babyo369 wrote:
Hi Babyo369, i checked a bit on line to see if Houston is guarded under the HIPPA LAW, as far as i can tell, they are. I could not find the exact wording that stated "can't tell mom/dad" so to speak, but i could make it out in the round about wording. To many, where to's and there off's and there fore's, lol.
In the event that you do decide to visit any health care facility, ask before you actually make the appt.
And just a word of advice for you, now that you have become sexually active, you should consider getting yourself checked out at least once a year. A pap smear and an internal is a good idea.
You sound so sweet i would hate to see you make a mistake especially if it could have been totally prevented.
Thanks again your a big help bbfeet9!!:D I stay clean I shower everyday. But I had sex for the first time and I had the ordor so I was scared but you helped alot thanks!! And about the gyno idk cause I live in Houston. But thanks for the advice. :D
Hi Babyo369, i checked a bit on line to see if Houston is guarded under the HIPPA LAW, as far as i can tell, they are. I could not find the exact wording that stated "can't tell mom/dad" so to speak, but i could make it out in the round about wording. To many, where to's and there off's and there fore's, lol.
In the event that you do decide to visit any health care facility, ask before you actually make the appt.
And just a word of advice for you, now that you have become sexually active, you should consider getting yourself checked out at least once a year. A pap smear and an internal is a good idea.
You sound so sweet i would hate to see you make a mistake especially if it could have been totally prevented.
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OMg thanks so much bbfeet9!! Your such a big help!! you know exactly what to say!! LOL thanks so much!! Your so helpful I know who to go to when I have a problem well if you don't mind?! LOL... Yeah I think I'm going to go get checked out I think I'm going to ask either my bestfrieds mom or my boyfriends grandma.. Although she's like young to be a grandma LOL!!... And don't worry I'll stay protected till I finish medical school and stable and married LOL!! Well stay in touch of you can love your help!!! thanks your sweet too:) LOL hope to talk to you soon
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thanks soo much bbfeet9 you were an amazing help .. i feel sooo much better now that yu cleared everything up for me. again thanks alot. :-)
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