im not sure if I have herpes or if it's just from shaving, but I have bumps in my pelvic area that aren't painful, and when popped they just bleed. I thought they were ingrown hairs but they didn't hurt, like they're popped now and I don't have any pain. Something that made me weary is that swollen lymphnodes are a symptom and I had a swollen lymphnode a few weeks ago. Are herpes lesions painful to some and not to others? Am I just being super paranoid?