i'm very saddened by what you two are saying.
all's i know is anger is an expression of FRUSTRATION and/or HURT and/or FEAR.
Anger is usually expressed by ''emotionally immature'' people.
Otentimes its the way they were raised, it is how they learn to deal/cope with their emotions, which can be so hurtful and frustrating and so fourth
to the people around them (family, wife/husband, etc.)
Psychotherapy and being aware of this can change this behavior.
One way of dealing with someone who's angry is to say somethin g like ''well, i feel what youre saying. that cant be easy, i understand, thats tough'' --- Showing some compassion i guess. ( it can be hard but it might calm down the person's wrath.)
You can ask that person how are you really feeling? are you frustrated? hurt? scared? all of the above?
it might give her/him some insight as to how they are really feeling,
feel it then move on with their lives,
because as humans, emotions regulate our lives. emotions play a bigger part in human life than some people are willing to admit.
and angry people are dangerous, cause they are very impulsive and dont know how to deal with emotional distress. be wary
regards, i wish you all good luck, and take care.
really what ever you had its correct but what is the solution behined this why they are getting angry on us we are well educated family why they not like us but how we spent are life with an such a angry person he always give more favour to their parents sister problem and not to me whether iam beggar or what in family just have to seat quiet and listen everything llike mum then he will like everything or what.then he should do uneducated girl .