Hi there..my husband also gets angry at me over little things..he might not notice it because after he says something hurtful,he acts normal.my husband is on a lot of medicine..mostly medicine for depression.my husband is also alcoholic but he stopped a few days ago..evrytime he got angry,i will just keep quiey and ignore him which makes him more angry. But sometimes im just not bothered.. i love him but i reallly dont know what to do..if i ignore him for a long time,he will always telll me i can go back to my parents. He is not the type to hug me when i cry.. and he is the type who dont listen when i talk.he willl always cut me halfway..l dont know..sigh!!