AM WORRIED ME AND M BOYFRIEND ARE TO HAVE SEX SOON, I AM NOT A VIRGIN AM 22. HE IS A VIRGIN AND 29. AM SO AFRAID MY VIGINA SOMETIMES GET WET. WONT MY VIGINA BE VERY BIG FOR HIM. WILL HIS PENIS COVER FOR THAT. AM AFRAID I WILL BE FOCUSING ON THOSE THINGS THAN ENJOYING OUR FIRST TIME TOGETHER. I LOVE HIM A LOT I DO NOT WANT TO LOOSE HIM. WHAT CAN I DO TO LESSEN THE WETING IN MY VIGINA AND HOW CAN I PLEASURE HIM MORE.
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I think it is not a problem that your vagina will be too big for him. I think everything will be all right, just enjoy your sex and your partner, do not think about other things, try to make you boyfriend much pleasure
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The wetness that you get is a sign that your getting aroused and when bf sees and feels this, it will probably turn him on even more. Now he knows that he is the one that is turning you on and the discharge is your natural lubrication to prepare for comfortable intercourse. The more foreplay you have the wetter you will get, this is a for sure turn on for both partners.
His first time will feel funny for him, he may be a little shy. Let him find his way around with your guidance but don't be pushy or controlling. Tho he is a virgin and your not, he still needs to feel like he is doing a good job at pleasuring you. Make sure you let him know just how good things are as you make your way thru the act itself, these words will build his confidence and eventually he will become an expert lover for you. If he ejaculates before he should, don't make an issue out of it, this premature ejaculation may happen due to nerves and the inexperience to hold his ejaculate for the longest possible time. A guy learns how to hold on to his orgasm over time.
Don't concentrate so hard on the things that you think shouldn't be but focus on positive and enjoyable things.
Take your time and be understanding making his first time a memory rather than a nightmare.
His first time will feel funny for him, he may be a little shy. Let him find his way around with your guidance but don't be pushy or controlling. Tho he is a virgin and your not, he still needs to feel like he is doing a good job at pleasuring you. Make sure you let him know just how good things are as you make your way thru the act itself, these words will build his confidence and eventually he will become an expert lover for you. If he ejaculates before he should, don't make an issue out of it, this premature ejaculation may happen due to nerves and the inexperience to hold his ejaculate for the longest possible time. A guy learns how to hold on to his orgasm over time.
Don't concentrate so hard on the things that you think shouldn't be but focus on positive and enjoyable things.
Take your time and be understanding making his first time a memory rather than a nightmare.
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Wetter is better :-D
Unless you've been doing porn movies and sticking a telephone pole in there, I don't think your vagina has stretched. Women have babies come out through it and they go right back to pleasing their husbands just fine. He's a virgin ------ how would he know if it's larger than most? 8-|
Just love him and he'll love you for it. It's not a contest like American Idol where everyone has to be perfect. It's the two of you loving each other.
If he comes as soon as he gets it in, it's because the little guy was soooo happy to get into heaven he just couldn't contain himself. It used to happen to me all the time. I had to let it happen, then go back for another round. I used to get so excited while doing foreplay on my wife I would come before even trying to put it in.
When it feels good --- TELL HIM ---- when it doesn't or if it hurts, tell him it's not comfortable like that and "WE" need to try it a little differently. Nobody want's to be hurting their partner. Well, normal people don't want to hurt their partner. But how will they know if the partner doesn't tell them?
So just enjoy yourself and no pressure. You just keep doing it over until you get right. I loved doing it over, and over, and over.
Hey Beeb, it's good to have you back. I've missed your posts. XD
Unless you've been doing porn movies and sticking a telephone pole in there, I don't think your vagina has stretched. Women have babies come out through it and they go right back to pleasing their husbands just fine. He's a virgin ------ how would he know if it's larger than most? 8-|
Just love him and he'll love you for it. It's not a contest like American Idol where everyone has to be perfect. It's the two of you loving each other.
If he comes as soon as he gets it in, it's because the little guy was soooo happy to get into heaven he just couldn't contain himself. It used to happen to me all the time. I had to let it happen, then go back for another round. I used to get so excited while doing foreplay on my wife I would come before even trying to put it in.
When it feels good --- TELL HIM ---- when it doesn't or if it hurts, tell him it's not comfortable like that and "WE" need to try it a little differently. Nobody want's to be hurting their partner. Well, normal people don't want to hurt their partner. But how will they know if the partner doesn't tell them?
So just enjoy yourself and no pressure. You just keep doing it over until you get right. I loved doing it over, and over, and over.
Hey Beeb, it's good to have you back. I've missed your posts. XD
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