How can you tell if your kegel balls (Ben Wa) are too big or the right size?

Kegel balls come in different grams, some of them the size of marbles and then a little bigger.  Depending on what you are trying to achieve depends on the size.  You don't want to go to big of a gram, otherwise, it will be uncomfortable for you.  You are supposed to be able to walk around and continue with your lifestyle.  Please don't forget that they are in there...will make for an embarrasssing trip to the er.  

sure, there are different sizes. The first one they call a preferred tampon size because you can choose between small, medium or large. now, to see what is the best for you, you need to try on your own. you should choose the proper size, because you need to be able to walk, sit, etc. you need to learn how to function normally. I was never so much worried about those sizes until my good friend told me that I should. find someone who can give you a good advice. also, you can try a kegel exercises for women. just sayin'

I have the same exact question lynn... Did you find the answer???