The only time I can see my boyfriend is at school. He said I can sit on his lap when I asked him. I've never sat on anyone's lap before. How do I do it?
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Health Hero
1626 posts
Hi, AllyDay.
It's really up to you and your boyfriend. If you both feel comfortable with it, then go ahead and sit on his lap. Make sure you are both comfortable and that you take it slow.
Don't make any sudden movements.
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Thank you for your response! The problem is that I don't know HOW.
How do I make sure he's comfortable?
How do I make sure he's comfortable?
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Health Hero
1626 posts
Hi, again.
Making sure your boyfriend is comfortable when you sit in his lap is really important, so here are some tips to help:
1. Ask your boyfriend if he’s comfortable with you sitting in his lap. Respect his answer and don’t pressure him if he’s not.
2. Make sure you’re not leaning too much of your weight onto him. Use your arms and legs to support yourself so you’re not putting too much strain on him.
3. Avoid sitting in an uncomfortable position. You want to be able to relax and enjoy the moment.
4. If you want to cuddle, be sure to move around a bit so you’re both comfortable.
Making sure your boyfriend is comfortable when you sit in his lap is really important, so here are some tips to help:
1. Ask your boyfriend if he’s comfortable with you sitting in his lap. Respect his answer and don’t pressure him if he’s not.
2. Make sure you’re not leaning too much of your weight onto him. Use your arms and legs to support yourself so you’re not putting too much strain on him.
3. Avoid sitting in an uncomfortable position. You want to be able to relax and enjoy the moment.
4. If you want to cuddle, be sure to move around a bit so you’re both comfortable.
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