how to be more confident when you are having small breasts?

Enjoy it, there are plenty of guys who love flat chests. Those who pick on you are jealous. They wish they had what you have. My wife had what we jokingly called triple A Band aids for bras.

Hi, Chantelle. For what it's worth, my experience. I'm 26 and triple A-cup, the difference between my underbust and my bust circumference is less than an inch. You can imagine that I had to deal with all king of nasty observations from my comrades. I also tried all kind of bras, bralettes, chest wraps etc. Unpadded wraps flatten my breasts and my nipples stick out. Push-ups bring my areolas out. Normal, lightly padded bras are useless except that they hide areolas and nipples, so if I want to be on the safe side, e.g. when teaching, I wear them. Otherwise, in everyday life, nowadays I go braless. I started to do so when I entered college. Before that new start in my life I felt I was too close to my insecure days and to the people who knew me back then and even if I was ready in my head before I decided to wait till then. But during holidays, when travelling or being abroad I started to ditch the bra when I was 16, when it was clear to me that nothing was going to grow anymore and that I had to come to terms with my body anyway. Staying flat was all the more painful because my breasts had started budding very early, when I was 9, and I was very excited about it all, but after a few months, once the areolas had grown a little bit and the nipple come forth they stopped and resumed growing only when I was 11. By that time the other girls in my class had also started to develop and I felt normal and at ease. Again I was kind of in advance, because after a few months I had larger areolas than most other girls my age and also my nipples were more pronounced. This made me feel somewhat uncomfortable but at least I was going to have breasts. But soon my breasts slowed down growing. When I was 13 they had stopped altogether and only areola and nipple still developed until I was 15. Confidence actually came naturally over the years. The first step was to stop hiding in the changing rooms. I noticed that not every girl had the same opinion on what breasts they would like to have or on what they didn't like on mine. Some thought my areolas and nipples were too big and others that I was happy to have at least that. But of course all thought I was very unlucky not to have proper breasts. Then, as I wrote, there were the holidays and then the final coming out. I made a lot of progress in self-confidence once I stopped wearing bras on a regular basis precisely when I was your age and a little later. If you feel you can do it, then you will be able to do it. I wouldn't have a boob job either, never even considered it. But I was determined to come to terms with my breasts as they are. When you stop wearing a bra, of course there is another question which arises: is it really ok to let the nipples show? Frankly, today, my answer is: yes. Maybe if I had had normal breasts I would never have abandoned the bra. But wearing a bra only in order to hide your nipples whereas the shape of your breasts is visible anyway even if you wear a bra this simple makes no sense to me. You don't need to wear transparent blouses. But why not also acknowledge this part of your body? So in my experience body-confidence comes step by step and develops into a whole. I wish you luck. You will rock!

thank you that means alot