That is absolutely adorable and totally sweet and sexy...I have very large aereola, pinkish reddish w/brown, button nipples, D Cups, very perky for a momma of two, LOL. But I have always hated my nipples. Honest to god, i have been very very embarrassed and sensitive about them. I have never been with nor met a guy who had a 'thing' for them, sadlym I've kind of met the opposite and hence...the embarrassment. I've looked into reduction surgery myself. But at this point in life I have come to believe that the right kind of man for me will love me just the way I am. Advice to this young lady posting...learn to love you just the way you are, or to at least say "This is me, and someone will love me just the way I am." My current bf doesn't really seem to like them or dislike them..I think he prefers much smaller nipples, considering his taste in porn is mostly smaller-breasted gals with small nipples. Oh well, LOL. To each his own. I'm ending it soon anyway, this being one of the many reasons. The big one being, I want to be loved just how I am. I will say, however, that if I met a guy who loved my aereolas...I'd probably LOVE having him for a lover! that would be pretty fantastic, because it's never happened. I would say thaqt men who favor our type of nipples/aereolas aren't in the majority. but I think you and I, gf, should probably try and find one of them, and let his adoration make us feel beautiful and sexy. the #1 reason women site for not enjoying sex, or not experiencing true ecstasy/orgasm is... issues with our bodies/body image issues. As in, we're too busy being extremely worried and embarrassed of our bodies/'flaws', that we can't just enjoy ourselves. Studies have found that women who feel beautiful and sexy enjoy sex a LOT more.So I think that finding a guy who appreciates your attributes is going to be key in your sexual development. Please re-think the whole surgery route...it could reduce your sensitivity/nerve response in your nipples. And as for mississippislim... you made my night. going through such utter sexual rejection by my domestic partner/bf is destroying my self esteem. Reading your memoir of your first encounter with large areolas...made me feel beautiful, because I have lacy demi-bras like that, and yes, the aereolas peek out the top, like they do on a lot of my bras. I always hated that...but...now I think I'll see it differently. Your post made me think of Dave Matthews' song "Crash". "In a boy's dream"...LoL. ..."OMG i was mesmerized i was in love"...AWWWW...that's sweet. and to me, sweet is sexy. what a nice post to leave for this woman!! you rock!