>:(thank you buddy........you have given really good piece of advice....I had my past feeling same...as you told.....I was very innocent once.......
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I like your way..........and I agree with you just tell the truth to your partner n let him/her decide to accept........
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You cannot check with certainty whether a girl is a real virgin.
I presume you want to be sure she is a virgin, rather than be sure she is not, or just out of curiosity. The very request raises questions concerning your attitude.
- Why do you want to check whether 'a girl' is a virgin?
- The suggestion is that you would not believe her if she said she was:
- You: "Are you a virgin?"
- Girl: "Yes"
- You: "I don't believe you unless I check"
- If you are not a virgin, then expecting the girl to be a virgin is a case of double standards.
- If you are a virgin, then expecting the girl to be a virgin when you do not intend marrying her indicates you probably want to have sex with her, thus ensuring she no longer is a virgin (and neither would you be).
- If you are a virgin, then wanting the girl to be a virgin when you do intend marrying her is good. So talk about it. However, not believing her is a bad way to start (or continue) a relationship, let alone marriage.
- If you want to check whether she is a virgin, would you be equally happy for her to check whether you are a virgin?
- Are you thinking of her hymen as her virginity?
- So do you want her to have an intact hymen whether (or not) she is a real virgin?
- Why (apart from purely selfish reasons) would you want that?
- The presence of her hymen can readily be checked, but might be a humiliating experience for her.
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You haven't told me anything about your g.f., but if she has not had sexual intercourse, she is a virgin. What other help do you need?
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