I am 12 weeks post-op and had my bladder lifted during the full hysterectomy. Urinating had been such a drag in the beginning because I could feel that there is still some urine left but nothing comes out. My intimate life is null and void because I do not have any urge to have sex with my partner.

For the last three (3) weeks the discomfort in the bladder has worstened. I wake up during the night with a full bladder and in pain, sit on the toilet for it seems like an half an hour...drip drip. no intimacy yet, I am too scared because it feels as if my bladder wants to drop out of my vagina.

I am scared to go back to the doctor because I cannot afford to get operated again.