hi my name is claudia 15 and pregnant,jus gave my parents the news two weeks ago.ever since that they hav changed towards me.My boyfriennd and his family are willin to help me but my parents are always trippin about them.they keep me away from them and keep me as a prisoner im not allowed to recieve anything from them and i sometimes starve myself my mom does nt even mind carin for me. all i do everyday is cry and fight with my parents they just throw everything at my face,i jus wanna be with my boyfriend and b happy for our baby.What would happened if i just leav home? i dont live far from my boyfriend,they would kno where and how i am.
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Hi Claudia,
You don't say where you live. It matters. Laws differ everywhere.
The major issue at the moment is that, at least in most of the US, you are a minor. Your parents are responsible for your well being. If they don't want you near your boyfriend or his parents that is their choice. If you leave home, you are a runaway. Your boyfriends family can get in trouble for helping you.
You do have rights though. You can go to court to see about being emancipated, freed from your parents. Talk to a lawyer. It won't be easy and will your boyfriends parents take care of you? How do you plan to support yourself and the baby in the future.
I think you'd do better to sit down and talk to your parents right now. Find out what their concerns are. It would help if you could talk to your boyfriend and his parents together. It is not easy raising a child.
Good luck.
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i wanna live with my boyfriend and his family they got more room for me and baby,they are willin to help us out then let my parents separate us.i am from tx,ive tried to sitt with my parents to talk to them and my father dont speak to me at all he tells my mom what to tell me so all she does is throw stuff at me by tellin me im worthless i just wanna leave.i kno i got all da support with my boyfriends family simply cause my family and i are not from da usa but im not doin it for other reasons,i jus want to be compatible then b arguin and fightin with my family. pleaz help
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Honestly considering that you are fifteen years old I'd recommend an abortion or adoption. I only say this because think of the future, your going to ruin anything you could possibly have become because of this. Also consider the child's future, you do not know how to take care of a child and judging by your writing, your child will have a horrible time growing up and will also become a teenage parent. The choice is yours, but your better off holding out raising a kid til you are above the age of twenty five and finish your schooling now. Don't rely on anyone else your age but I'm sorry to say thsi your boyfriend will most likely leave you, maybe not now or when the baby is born but he will. He's also young and do you think he'll want to stay with one girl for the rest of his life? It isn't going to be a happy ending with him and his family. To be quite frank, I don't want my money going towards teen pregnancy's in welfare because I am in school and unable to get welfare even though I am always flooded with homework and quite unhealthy at the moment. Seriously, welfare just throws free pity money of teen pregnancy's.
Anyways, I'd highly recommend adoption or abortion for your and the child's sake.
Anyways, I'd highly recommend adoption or abortion for your and the child's sake.
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