Im 19, and ive only ever come once during sex. I get much more pleasure on the outside of my vagina, and in sometimes it is so uncomfortable in sex it almost hurts and i have to stop.....why is this? I do nog seem to get any pleasure from sex, not like i do from oral sex?
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hey guys i hope that one of u can help me, i got pregnant at a young age and sex was graet but after my pregnantcy i cant come anymore and my partner has tried averything to help me. it really dosent bother me that he cums but he gets mad cuz he cums and i cant so now he dosent even want to have sex cuz he doesnt want me to feel bad and i have told him that it dosent bother me but he just makes a big deal out it. and its been 3 months since weve done anytrhing. wat can i do :-(
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Hi.. Um. I can't cum at all. I've never been able to cum during intercourse. I can rub myself, and then I cum, but I can't get off unless I do that. My boyfriend feels horrible about this, and he's a very experienced lover, and he's great at it. But I just can't cum without doing anything. And he can last forever, and we're very flexible with our positions. He feels really bad about this, and I feel like something is wrong with me too. my boyfriend says it's a mental block because my last two experiences with sex were horrible. I love my boyfriend with everything, and our sex is very satisfying, but I want to get off without having to do anything with myself. :/
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I have been divorced for seven years and I started dating a really sweet guy this past Valentines Day and we really hit things off to a great start. He is the first one that has really gotten along with the whole family really well. I am head over heels for the guy but he has trust issues with all women because his wife of 5 or 6 years left him this past December without any explanation except to say that she needs to be alone and she left him in dire straits. I can relate to everything he is going through because I went through it also. I am 30 years old he is so sweet to me my daughter and the rest of the family. He doesn't have any children but is so good with my daughter. I am so turned on by him but I can't cum and this is the first time I have ever had a hard time cumming what do I do? He is hysterical he is always making me and my family laugh.
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i'm having the exact same problem! my boyfriend is amazing and even if he comes before me we then do other things (licking out/finguring) to make me cum but it never seems to work anymore :/ he got really depressed about it the other night and i pretended to come but now i feel awful because i'm going to have to fake it untill it actually happens again :/ i turned to an experienced friend and he said that his old girlfriend used to have difficulty cuming after she had her period? just to add that in there, he said if it's that then it only usually lasts for a week or so. but i don't think this is the case for me as i haven't had a period for a couple weeks now and my body is just rejecting cuming. i understand that i'm only 16 years old and my body is still developing and i'm still farely new to sex in general but i don't understand how i can make my boyfriend understand it's not him, it's me :/
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Im having the same problem :-( . Im 19 years old. I love my bf to death and i enjoy the sex but i just cant cum. Ive had a couple bad experiences having sex before and I still have some trust issues with that :-( . My bf blames himself ad I keep telling him its not and that its my fault. Ive been under so much stress and everything else lately I think is also the problem, but I dont know. My bf keeps telling me not to trust anyone but how am supose to trust him then :-( . I just had a miscarriage a few weeks back on top of that Im going through depression and Im really stressed out :'( . I dont feel Im beautiful for him either. I need help. I have a feeling all of this is involved as well as how I feel about myself :'( .
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Im 21 and I have had these problems for sometime. I actually felt weird around my boyfriend cause of it. Now the bad part was he wasn't quick at all he took his time and made me feel good. But just after I turned 20 I couldn't cum at all. I wouldn't have much to do with sex, I would make sure I wasn't alone with him I became frighten that if we were it would lead to sex. But one day me and a couple of my girls went out to diner and we started talking about our sex lives. Now I hate talking about it most of the time, but I had to find out what was going on with my body. Well while talking to them I found out that two of my other friends had the same problem and they were in the same boat. After a 4 months had past my bf asked me what was wrong why I hate being alone with him why I didn't want anything to do with him, and I told him and that night we went out for diner and drove around and talked about anything that popped in our heads. It had relaxed me I didnt feel so frightened. That night when we got back to his house we watched a movie and while laying on his couch alone with him i felt relaxed like nothing was going through my head, then when he asked me to stay I said sure then we began and I felt so much better my bf laughed cause I did it 3 times, it was so much more comfortable.
Now ladies I know that we have that one guy that makes us happy and you can trust and theres nothing you wouldn't do for them and the same on their part. Thats the one that you will cum with, I know that sounds weird but its true. When my bf did that I knew he felt the same as I and I have had a hard time trusting men just by the way I was raised, but believe me I have no problem now getting myself to cum. And if your not comfortable get out of the situation that your in, and be honest with them. Let them know what their doing wrong. You are you! You know what makes you happy and help show them how to make you happy. Guys can be smart but all girls are different.
Now ladies I know that we have that one guy that makes us happy and you can trust and theres nothing you wouldn't do for them and the same on their part. Thats the one that you will cum with, I know that sounds weird but its true. When my bf did that I knew he felt the same as I and I have had a hard time trusting men just by the way I was raised, but believe me I have no problem now getting myself to cum. And if your not comfortable get out of the situation that your in, and be honest with them. Let them know what their doing wrong. You are you! You know what makes you happy and help show them how to make you happy. Guys can be smart but all girls are different.
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Hey..im young.. 17.. and i kinda have the same problem. ive only been with one person since i was 15. in the begininng i couldnt cum cuz i didnt know how.. then i learned. i can orgasm, cum, even squirt when im by myself.. when im with him idk.. just doesnt happen.. it feels good.. but for his ego i fake it.. i hate if he has to try and it wud take really long. so idk.. any advice. He knows what he's doing, and im sure he cam make me cum, the sex it great.. just idk how to cum during sex.. :-(..thanx...
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I am 13 am i can cum really easily.
The trick is to pull up and down on ur vigina and the twist it around. It is really easy and feels like ur gona have a pee but the it feels really warm and wet and nice :-D Hope you lot found this helpful.
P.S - I really am 13 and my boyfriend loves it!!!! ;-)
The trick is to pull up and down on ur vigina and the twist it around. It is really easy and feels like ur gona have a pee but the it feels really warm and wet and nice :-D Hope you lot found this helpful.
P.S - I really am 13 and my boyfriend loves it!!!! ;-)
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i had the same problems that you all are having. this may sound sick to alot of you, and so be it. i found the only way i can cum is if i pee just a little bit during sex. my boyfriend goes nuts over it, and it gets me off. im not talking a whole bunch here, just enough to let a little out. not really even noticable. but from pushing so hard it makes me cum.
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hi,
Im also having the same problem. i have a perfect bf who is willing to die for me but lately i dont any feelings towards sex. I want to spent time with him bt i will try my level best to avoid sex bcoz i dont enjoy it at all. Its nothing wrong with me or him bt its just both of us. I get aroused when i do dirty chat with other guys and lately i started dating with other guys. Am i doin a wrong thing?
Im also having the same problem. i have a perfect bf who is willing to die for me but lately i dont any feelings towards sex. I want to spent time with him bt i will try my level best to avoid sex bcoz i dont enjoy it at all. Its nothing wrong with me or him bt its just both of us. I get aroused when i do dirty chat with other guys and lately i started dating with other guys. Am i doin a wrong thing?
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try sitting on your washing machine as it it going and have ur bf stand between ur legs. the vibrating from the machine n him insider at that angle should give u a more interesting n pleasurable experience
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Hi all
Most women don't reach orgasm during intercourse - it's prefectly normal.
The reason is most couples don't know a woman has to be very aroused before intercourse starts, and
needs at least 30 minutes of foreplay before penetration. And she must be feeling very loving towards her partner,
with a high level of trust and respect before she can open herself enough to come during sexual intercourse.
Lastly, of course, he has to be able to continue for long enough! If he can't last long during sex, she's
never going to make it.....
So here's how to get the information you need: look at ***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed
to find out how to get to orgasm during sex!
Fred
Most women don't reach orgasm during intercourse - it's prefectly normal.
The reason is most couples don't know a woman has to be very aroused before intercourse starts, and
needs at least 30 minutes of foreplay before penetration. And she must be feeling very loving towards her partner,
with a high level of trust and respect before she can open herself enough to come during sexual intercourse.
Lastly, of course, he has to be able to continue for long enough! If he can't last long during sex, she's
never going to make it.....
So here's how to get the information you need: look at ***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed
to find out how to get to orgasm during sex!
Fred
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U all should look up something called sexual anorexia, (which is an obsessive state in which the physical, mental, and emotional task of avoiding sex dominates a person's life. Sexual anorexia can make a person feel powerful and defended against all hurts. Sexual anorexia often becomes a way to cope with all stress and all life difficulties*). I have been having the same problem then i found out my husband of 8 years was looking at porn and trying to wank off to try and last longer and for sum reason this made me upset, we got in a long fight, i felt i wasn't doing it for him etc etc etc basically i went to seek help.... upon going and seeing a psychologist she told me i may suffer from this and to look it up..... This is a very VERY real problem that affects alot of women (and some men too) without them even knowing it... if you think you may have this please seek help of a professional, it takes alot of time and patience to overcome something like this... make sure you have a understanding lover that is willing to do what he can to make you feel secure, comfortable and wanted)... basically what I've gotten out all the hours of research I've done is that it takes time and patience (Rome wasn't built in a day) and if the both of you are willing to overcome any obstacle together, than this could b just the obstacle....
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I totally understand your problem, I am 45 and my boyfriend is 30 and I am having trouble cumming when
we have sex and I dont know what to do, so we are in the same boat ..... :(
we have sex and I dont know what to do, so we are in the same boat ..... :(
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