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I can't cum during sex, my boyfriend thinks it's his fault,

By kat86 | 90 posts, last post
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Sasa Milosevic, MD answered this Female Orgasm And Orgasmic Disorders
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T-stuff

Its true. My gal has d same problem.
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Guest


I peed on myself.
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Kb93

That's the g spot
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KB93

"I had the same problem while about 3 years... I couldn't cum, I didn't know how. But recently I learned to relax and my boyfriend started fingering me different. Tell your partner to take their index and middle finger and curve them like when you point and say come here. You'll feel on the inside of her vagina where your fingers should be it'll be rough kind of like sand paper ( big different in the rest of the vagina, because it's really soft and smooth). Finger her like that until the rough pocket becomes larger (all i mean when i say larger is that it'll fill with liquid). Keep going and relax and you should cum. FYI: IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE TO GO PEE, KEEP GOING YOUR GOING TO CUM. YOUR NOT GOING TO PEE... YOUR BODY SHOULD SHUT DOWN WHEN YOUR GOING TO CUM SO YOU CAN'T PEE. If you can't get off that way, try standing up with them behind you. I hope this helps." My gosh I don't know how to use this site so I apogize, but to the person who said this, that is the g spot:)
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Finally There

The fact that he continuously watches pornography makes you feel inadequate. Feeling inadequate or insufficient would automatically shut any woman's feelings down towards her mate. He needs to reconnect with you. You need to reconnect with him. The porn has to go. Spice things up with sexy lingerie, stilettos, wigs, make up, all types of different things to grab his attention. Lose weight for yourself, not for him. Feel sexy for yourself not for him. That will automatically heighten your sexual experience. When you feel sexy for yourself no one can stop you from enjoying yourself. Get sexy one night and have some fun. Let him WATCH you pleasure yourself without toys. Rub your clit, finger your g-spot (the rough bumpy space at the top of your vagina). If he's into oral, let him taste your fingers throughout this process. Finger your g-spot until you're close to cumming, (it will feel like you need to pee). Then (if he's not already rock hard), give home some oral to get him there. CLIMB ON TOP!!! Women have some of the best organs when we feel we are in control. Ride him until you both climax. As you touch yourself be sure to get loud when something feels really good to you. He will make a mental note to try that. If he's the kind that doesn't mind some instruction, tell him/ show him what you like. It'll be will worth it, trust me!
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Guest

Im the same way im 20 and cant come for my current boyfriend he is older mah ex made me cum bye eating me out now after a couple years passed and I have my current boyfriend I cant seem to cum for nuffin wats wrong? I really like it and he thinks he cant please me but he does alot more then my ex
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I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 24, hegets very frustrated and depressed because I don't cum during sex. It feels amazing and I love it and I've told him, but to him it's like cumming is everything in sex. I love it when he cums and I love that he can cum during sex with me, I know it would upset me if he couldn't cum but if he was okay with it I wouldn't mind. I can cum if I masturbate, and I know I can cum if he rubs me or gives me oral but I feel that we just haven't done it enough or for long enough. I have felt close to cumming during sex and during oral but I haven't gotten there yet, and he gets more discouraged each time.

I would also like to add that I lost my virginity to him 4 months ago, so I have no experience before him. He also gets mad at me because I think I had a small orgasm about 2 years ago while grinding on my ex boyfriend. That's the only time I have cum besides by masturbation, and he feels it's because my ex was more attractive, which is not true at all. My boyfriend is extremely attractive to me. I would love to cum during sex and make him feel like a man (he says he doesn't feel like a man) but I just don't know how, and I would like to learn. I tried rubbing myself while he's inside me and I feel that I could cum that way but we didn't do it long enough to see if it would work. It's like the biggest problem in our relationship and it makes him think I need someone bigger, but I don't want to have sex with anyone if it isn't him. Thanks in advance!

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its his fault

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Guest

Sure its not your boyfriend 's fault.Its you and your trust issues.Your letting itgo to your brain about what he is doing to you.Dont think about it and itll happen naturally.If you dont like that just tell him i dont like that.He ll inderstand as tome pass youll be ready eventually.
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Guest

yes your a b****
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Guest

caalmm urself down,get in dd mood,tell urself u r gon cum, do it in a really comfortable environ and, enjoy urself..I'm sure u'd come...d best tin a girl can do for herself is being confident abt herself n having a high self esteem
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Guest

You cannot have an "earthquake" climax if you are focused on other issues. You have to be completely relaxed and focus instead upon what yo are feeling. If you have issues with your partner, such as a cheating episode which he was involved in and it enters your thoughts as you are together intimately it's just not going to work. You are inhibited and you may need perhaps an alcoholic drink to help your psyche relax a bit more.
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Guest

Your boyfriend needs to learn a little bit about the female genetalia. He needs to explore the folds of your vagina to find just where you get pleasure from, mostly just below or beside the little soldier that most blokes like to play with as well as inside your vagina towards the front of your body the roughsort of skin area is where the G spot is. He needs to explore and make you feel nice. Help him by letting him know where it feels good and that hard rubbing only makes you sore not excited. Hope this helps.
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Guest

Why would you still be with him to begin with?
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Guest

Lately i haven't been able to cum when im having sex with my boyfriend. I was sick theses last past days and i wasn't eating good is that whats causing me not to cum? What's wrong with me?
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