I'm 18 and my boyfriend and I have had sex many times but I can never get pleasure from it. When he enters me at first it hurts, then it stops hurting but I can feel him moving inside me, then after a minute or two I can't feel anything. When masturbating it takes me a minute and a half to orgasm twice, so that isn't the problem. I have enough sex drive to initiate the sex, but am left disappointed and sore after he withdraws. It takes him about five minutes to cum without a condom and about an hour and a half with one. We always use lubricant and have tried various positions including girl on top and doggy but nothing seems to help. I am always left wondering how far off he is and am very thankful when its over, even five minutes is too long. I make love with him because I know he enjoys it, and making him happy is the only good bit of the whole thing. From reading various forums I know I'm not alone in this, but none of the suggestions (use more lube, watch porn beforehand, make the room romantic etc) have helped. Anyone who can help has my eternal gratitude...
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have you ever wondered why can't you feel the pleasure? I mean, did you try some foreplay or something like that, that can make your relationship better? sometimes, before the intercourse, people love to act, they love to pretend that they are something that they are not. Usually, that is the best way for one man to find proper erogenous zones for women. Kissing, teasing, and playing is definitely a good option. Maybe your sex is just a routine, maybe there is nothing romantic in this and you want it to be romantic? That is what I guess because I do know so many couples who have problems with it.
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forplay... let him kiss you allover.. tease n tease you till u can't take it! also do the same for him.. see how it goes
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I agree Guest...some men need to act on passion/being romantic before they enter just to have sex. The man is not giving her enough time to feel good all over and ONLY thinking about his needs. 5 minutes is too fast what will a woman get out of that?
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