Why can't I get any pleasure during intercourse?

I don't think it's unusual for a woman to not get an orgasm from intercourse. You and your partner need to work it out so you get an orgasm while making love. I always had to give my wife the orgasm manually before going in for mine. She enjoyed the feeling of having me inside her and the togetherness it produced but no orgasm from that. I was able to work it out so she would have one while I was inside and even at the same time as mine but it required manual stimulation to do it. Years of practice with the same woman is the secret for me.

Hello njoynlife,
Thank u for sharing with me ur story but, I think mine is a little bit deeper than that.
You see, I can feel myself being stimulated and my body wanting my partner but as soon as the intercourse started it disappeared and although I can feel what's going on inside me with the movement I cannot feel ANY pleasure at all.
And it's not just with my old partners but also whom ever I have slept with in the past.
So I haven't been with any man for 6 yrs. now and I feel now that its not them it's me. I think something may be wrong with my inside maybe.
So now I feel like I only have sex for a baby and that's it.
I would get checked but can't afford it and if I did I'm scared of hearing the results especially if surgery is involved.
What do u think could be wrong?

Just my opinion but men were designed to come quickly so they could get in there and plant their seed before some bigger guy came along and knocked them away. Then more recently we discovered that women can also have real pleasure but it takes a bit more doing. A lot of cooperation between the partners. I think you may be blocking it yourself for some reason. The inside of the vagina simply is not the most sensitive place for most women but if you are lucky enough to have something in there and the guy has to be good enough to make it work. I think you just need to have a guy whom you trust enough and is willing to learn how to make you respond.

@njoynlife
Thank you for that insight, I will be sure to try something new and probably shift my body a certain way and to keep an open mind.
I'm glad I found this sight because I was about to throw in the towel and give up men altogether. But your right I need to find someone who's willing to work with me in that department :)