Hi, I'm 11 and this is my 3rd year since I entered puberty. I masturbate 1 to 2 times daily in the shower, but lately I can't seem to get a good orgasim anymore :'( :-( I don' know what's wrong, any tips?
P.S. I don't actually ejeculate but I do feel a good orgasim ( but like I said; not lately).
P.S. I don't actually ejeculate but I do feel a good orgasim ( but like I said; not lately).
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My only suggestion is to try changing your routine a little. There is not much friction in the shower - so try it in your bed at night and see if that feels a little better for you.
Side note - what make you think you have started puberty? It's unusual to start puberty as young as you say you have, and also unusual to be 3 years into puberty and not able to ejaculate.
I applaud your courage to come here and ask for help. I hope my suggestions make a difference for you. Enjoy!
Side note - what make you think you have started puberty? It's unusual to start puberty as young as you say you have, and also unusual to be 3 years into puberty and not able to ejaculate.
I applaud your courage to come here and ask for help. I hope my suggestions make a difference for you. Enjoy!
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Sorry, my bad: my calculations are off ;-) I meant to say that I entered puberty at nine; witch is 2 years ago. Any way I tried your suggestion and turns out there's to much friction and my penis felt very sore afterward.
And by the way, I'm not actually under the water. I turn the shower head so it flows streight into the drain, lie un the floor, and use some lancome make-up thingy as a lube. also I only Just found out about masturbation. However I've known about sex and stuff for a while.
The reason that makes me so sure that I've entered puberty at nine, is that I got erections when I looked at pics of naked women online ( nuaghty me! :$ :-D ), and I had a generous amount of pubic and armpit hair in fourth grade. That make more sense?
Also, the reason I lied about my age in that post month ago, was so that I could get some tips. Sorry :-( .
And by the way, I'm not actually under the water. I turn the shower head so it flows streight into the drain, lie un the floor, and use some lancome make-up thingy as a lube. also I only Just found out about masturbation. However I've known about sex and stuff for a while.
The reason that makes me so sure that I've entered puberty at nine, is that I got erections when I looked at pics of naked women online ( nuaghty me! :$ :-D ), and I had a generous amount of pubic and armpit hair in fourth grade. That make more sense?
Also, the reason I lied about my age in that post month ago, was so that I could get some tips. Sorry :-( .
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I think the best advice is to lower the amount of times you masterbate (so that you actually have something to expect when you do it). When you do it often its just like an ordinary part of the daily routine, but if you dont do it for a few days and then do it, it will feel much better. Also, from experience here, it will not feel amazing until you're with a girl. Nothing compares to orgasms that you get from either sex, blow-jobs, or hand-jobs from her. Trust me. Just take it easy because you still are very young. You're time will come little one :-D
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You think I'm going to get a girlfriend at this age ?! You've got to be kidding!
P.S. FYI: I'm bisexual, more towards gay .
P.S. FYI: I'm bisexual, more towards gay .
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Yea kid...I don't think the advice about having sex so it feels better is very good for an 11 year old! You might have some success in cutting back on how many times you masturbate though. Try to not do it for a couple days, then see how it feels. Something else you may want to try is relaxing in bed, instead of the shower, and taking your time to explore your body without feeling like you have to hurry up. You mentioned there is too much friction - try some lube of some kind, it will give you a whole different feeling.
Good luck - let us know how it goes!
PS - 1) Be honest on here, that is how you will get the best advice - there is no reason to lie about anything, especially you age - we don't know you, and we never will...so there is NO reason to ever not be 100% honest AND 2) Don't try to identify yourself as straight, gay, bisexual or anything else at 11. Your age is a VERY confusing time for boys, almost everyone has thought about both sexes a lot as a natural curiosity. There is nothing wrong with it - just be safe, and make sure you are comfortable with decisions you make!
Good luck - let us know how it goes!
PS - 1) Be honest on here, that is how you will get the best advice - there is no reason to lie about anything, especially you age - we don't know you, and we never will...so there is NO reason to ever not be 100% honest AND 2) Don't try to identify yourself as straight, gay, bisexual or anything else at 11. Your age is a VERY confusing time for boys, almost everyone has thought about both sexes a lot as a natural curiosity. There is nothing wrong with it - just be safe, and make sure you are comfortable with decisions you make!
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Thats not what I mean. I was just trying to inform him that it really wont get that good until he does... And please dont do that for a few years. I was just trying to clarify that
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Good idea taz. But how do I private message you?
By the way, thanks for letting me know about my gayniss ( is that a word :-D ). but I already knew that. I'm so sure becuase Every time I look at this guy at my school, I get an erection and my stomache flips. I don't think I fancy him, I do fancy him. In fact, Every time I masturbate, I pretend he's with me and that we're kissing and having anal sex and stuff :$ ! Is that still normal? Also, when I said to Please_Help_mi: "You think I'm going to get a girlfriend..." I meant that I wished I could get one ( that kid at school-what would that be called; a gayfriend a boy'sboyfriend :-D ?)
Thanks for all the answers ;-) !
~Friskywhiskers~
By the way, thanks for letting me know about my gayniss ( is that a word :-D ). but I already knew that. I'm so sure becuase Every time I look at this guy at my school, I get an erection and my stomache flips. I don't think I fancy him, I do fancy him. In fact, Every time I masturbate, I pretend he's with me and that we're kissing and having anal sex and stuff :$ ! Is that still normal? Also, when I said to Please_Help_mi: "You think I'm going to get a girlfriend..." I meant that I wished I could get one ( that kid at school-what would that be called; a gayfriend a boy'sboyfriend :-D ?)
Thanks for all the answers ;-) !
~Friskywhiskers~
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On the right side of your screen click on "You have no new messages". In the new window you can type my name in to send me a message.
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I used the advice about stopping for a few day's. It was kinda hard not to though, and I kept on having to resist the urge to hop into the shower and start to rub it though. Luckily, my will power payed off, and this morning when I took a shower (a 45 minuite one :D: luckily, my family accepts that I take long showers!) I pushe away the shower head, lay down on the floor...and I reached the best orgasim that I ever experianced :D ! I also felt fluid running inside my penis right before I climaxed. Does this meen I will start to ejeculate soon?
Thanks again!
~Friskywhiskers~
Thanks again!
~Friskywhiskers~
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That's awesome dude!
If you felt fluid you may have actually ejaculated this time. When you are as young as you are your semen could be thin and perfectly clear for a while. Soooo...you may not have noticed that there was semen there with the water. Try to do it in your bed sometime so you can see if there is a little semen on your penis or stomach after you're orgasm.
I'm really glad that worked out (and felt) so good for you!!!
If you felt fluid you may have actually ejaculated this time. When you are as young as you are your semen could be thin and perfectly clear for a while. Soooo...you may not have noticed that there was semen there with the water. Try to do it in your bed sometime so you can see if there is a little semen on your penis or stomach after you're orgasm.
I'm really glad that worked out (and felt) so good for you!!!
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I don't think that I actually ejeculated becuse I didn't really feel any thing coming out. And by the way I used lube while in bed and there was still to much friction. And as I said before; there's barely any water on me so if something did come out I would have seen it, even if it only dribbled out and didn't squirt. After all, the water is only hitting my toes.
The only reason why I don't do it in bed is becuase my penis needs to be damp or the lube won't work. And yes, I've tried it with my saliva, so cut it out with the bed suggestion cuase' I tried it already, and what works for you obviously doesn't feel as good for me ;-) !
P.S. My penis somtimes burns after I urinate after I'm done masturbating, and god does it hurt o.O ! Could this have anything to do with the lube I use?
The only reason why I don't do it in bed is becuase my penis needs to be damp or the lube won't work. And yes, I've tried it with my saliva, so cut it out with the bed suggestion cuase' I tried it already, and what works for you obviously doesn't feel as good for me ;-) !
P.S. My penis somtimes burns after I urinate after I'm done masturbating, and god does it hurt o.O ! Could this have anything to do with the lube I use?
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