hi I am a 52 yr old female who at birth had inperforate anus as my surgery was done back in the 60s I don't know whether there has been better outcomes now. I had a terrible childhood and suffered humiliation n shame of my condition trying to manage my bowel I did however marry n have two children but know I'm finding that things are deteriorating and I have what looks like part of my anus pushing out it bleeds and is generally embarrassing I'm too scared to go the dr I don't know what to do is there anyone out there that can offer some advice or help . I'm now divorced and too scared to try at a new relationship because of how things are now and how it looks etc... Thanks