So lately I have been very depressed and stressed out about babies and, in general children, but maily newborn babies and infants. I don't know if I like them or hate them; On top of that, I'm always telling my boyfriend I Hate them and can't stand them but I don't know if that is truely the case. this has been going on extremely for about two or more so years now. Whenever I think about them, see one, or see a pregnant woman, It makes me feel even worse. Half the time I'm Always depressed and I haven't had it easy I will say, but this is just So Prominent in my life and it hurts so much and I have absolutely no one to talk to or confide in about this.
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Dear Alex_Allgood21
NO, you should NOT have babies unless you feel positive about them and feel a longing for them. Babies are a serious business, not to mention tons of responsibilities and giving time and attention. Babies are completely dependent on parents for their food, clothing, protection and love.I am sure there must be a reason why you dislike them - try confiding in a therapist - maybe it all relates to a bad and traumatic incident in your life.
Meanwhile convey your feelings in a very positive way to your boyfriend. I am sure he will understand - both of you can use protection during sex. Good luck
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