I'm 27 years old. I was born with two testicles but lost one due to blood loss to it when I was 7 years old. Although I never considered it to be a problem or even a topic of discussion until recently. I got into a relationship with a woman 3 years ago. We didn't know each for too long though. When dating, we didn't sleep with each other until about 2 months into the relationship and that was the biggest mistake of my life. The girl I was with reacted very negatively. She told me that I had deceived her and even called me a liar because i failed to inform her about my one testicle. And this was the next day AFTER we had sex with each other. Call it fate, karma, bad luck, or good luck, but she got pregnant. I took it as fantastic news! I know what you're probably thinking... girlfriend is pregnant and this guys happy? That joy did not last long though.... she got an abortion. She felt that my having one testicle would cause the baby to be born abnormal.... I always thought of her as a mature educated person.. but was truly shocked as to how far she went to break up with me.
I have never been the same after that. I avoid relationships now. I fear that I'm going to have a negative reaction from any woman I try to be with. I am unable to move on. Its been two years now and I think im now suffering from E.D as well.
My penis does not become erect in the morning anymore and my erections are weak and i also suffer from premature ejaculation even while masturbation. I can't live like this. I'm confused as to which Dr. or doctors I need to visit. I have no idea how to fix myself and feel that I'm getting worse everyday. My self confidence has deteriorated and I don't even speak much anymore. I used to be a social, active healthy person, but am now sad and afraid of new relationships. I'm lost. I really need some advice. I want to have two testicles... I heard about implants but have no idea who to visit. Who should I visit for lack of erection in the morning? What can I do to fix my weak erections and what do i do about premature ejaculation?
Just trying to find some answers and closure.............
I have never been the same after that. I avoid relationships now. I fear that I'm going to have a negative reaction from any woman I try to be with. I am unable to move on. Its been two years now and I think im now suffering from E.D as well.
My penis does not become erect in the morning anymore and my erections are weak and i also suffer from premature ejaculation even while masturbation. I can't live like this. I'm confused as to which Dr. or doctors I need to visit. I have no idea how to fix myself and feel that I'm getting worse everyday. My self confidence has deteriorated and I don't even speak much anymore. I used to be a social, active healthy person, but am now sad and afraid of new relationships. I'm lost. I really need some advice. I want to have two testicles... I heard about implants but have no idea who to visit. Who should I visit for lack of erection in the morning? What can I do to fix my weak erections and what do i do about premature ejaculation?
Just trying to find some answers and closure.............
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Dude, I'm telling you some girls just never became women.
That girl you were with was one of them.
That kind of girl is the kind that will leave you if you ever (god forbid) became seriously ill.
Getting an implant (never heard of that) is totally up to you. But let me assure you that there are girls out there that don't give our balls a second thought. You need a girl that is into you and not into counting your money or your balls, etc. :)
TBH it sounds like you're depressed. The fact that you seem to have ED is almost certainly connected to your mood. Perhaps you should look into some lifestyle changes. Perhaps consider taking an anti-depressant for a few weeks? Remember, change is the spice of life. Mix it up.
-Picky
That girl you were with was one of them.
That kind of girl is the kind that will leave you if you ever (god forbid) became seriously ill.
Getting an implant (never heard of that) is totally up to you. But let me assure you that there are girls out there that don't give our balls a second thought. You need a girl that is into you and not into counting your money or your balls, etc. :)
TBH it sounds like you're depressed. The fact that you seem to have ED is almost certainly connected to your mood. Perhaps you should look into some lifestyle changes. Perhaps consider taking an anti-depressant for a few weeks? Remember, change is the spice of life. Mix it up.
-Picky
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Hello Sean, I cam across your post because my son lost one testicle due to testicular torsion a few weeks ago. Although your post has been a while ago, I just wanted to tell you that I am really shocked about the behaviour of this girl. It is disgusting how she treated you and that she killed your baby. I guess you had testicular torsion as a boy too, which results in the testicle not getting enough blood and it dies. This doesn't mean your children will have any abnormalities at all, the only possible complication would be that it has a "bell clapper"deformity, which occurs in about 10% of all men and usually doesn't do any harm, it just means the testicle isn't attched to the outside skin and so can turn and twist more easily. There is an operation to fix this problem easily, so your son would not have any problems should he inherit it which is by no means sure.
I hope you have overcome your problems by now, if not I just wanted to tell you that you are a totally normal man and some persons of my gender are a**_ _ _ _ _! You deserve to be loved!
I hope you have overcome your problems by now, if not I just wanted to tell you that you are a totally normal man and some persons of my gender are a**_ _ _ _ _! You deserve to be loved!
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hi my name is chris .I lost my one testicle at the age of 15 due to testicular torsion.I am really afraid that I may not have babies in future. does having one testical can have baby???plz reply me
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Hi chris, it will not affect your fertility at all . You can have babies. Just make sure to take care of your testicle, because if it gets damaged you may not be able to.
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Get the implant as I did and your mental health will improve, maybe the ED as well. It's nice to have a pair. If ED continues, try Cialis. Expensive, but it works!
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I have only one testicle, the other one never formed. Is there a surgery of some kind, so I can have 2 testicles and be "normal"?
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Hi Guest
There is a procedure where they can give you an artificial testicle so it looks like you have two testicles.
Depending on how old you are you can take talk to your doctor or if needed have your parents make you an appointment to see about options for you.
Your doctor may have already talked to your parents and discussed options for you when you got older.
There is a procedure where they can give you an artificial testicle so it looks like you have two testicles.
Depending on how old you are you can take talk to your doctor or if needed have your parents make you an appointment to see about options for you.
Your doctor may have already talked to your parents and discussed options for you when you got older.
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