I enjoy being with him, being close, giggling with each other over stupid things we do during sex but I don't get anything out of the actual act itself. Penetration doesn't hurt but it is not pleasurable either. I always hear sex is this amazing, pleasurable thing and yet it doesn't seem that way. Am I doing something wrong? Is it just the way my body is and will always be? i want to do sex but while doing i dont enjoy infact i feel pain