hi its been 6 weeks when me and my boyfriend had sex. we are pretty precautious because im not on birth control. but even with a condom on i make him pull out before he cums. i gave him a hand job and made him cum but he was still hard so things got extreme and then when he pulled out just before he ejaculated it turned out the condom was broken. well we use ultra thin so we couldnt even feel the differance and on top of that the other half of the stupid condom was in me for 3 days before it came out. well its more then possible that he precame in me but thats impossible for me to get pregnant because he never fully ejaculated. so im confused because im peeing twice as much, im getting cravings, my boobs are so sore to touch, i puke everymorning and im getting all the symptoms of pregnancy. im might take a test but im kind of holding back because i know it would be impossible anyway. but other then being pregnant whats wrong with me?
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You need to take the test as your description of events certainly does make it possible. You masterbated him to orgasm then you two began to have sex, with a condom, so far so good. Now the condom breaks without your knowledge but you say he did not ejaculate. Due to you "jackin" him off beforehand there would have been some left over semen in his tubes which would have certainly presented live sperm in his pre seminal fluid, other wise known as pre cum. The chances of you conceiving by way of pre cum alone increase dramatically, especially in this scenario. If he took the time to use the bathroom he would have washed most or possibly all of the remaining semen away after you masterbated him.
Throwing up every morning,cravings, frequent urination and sore boobs all point toward pregnancy symptoms. Get an HPT and take it first thing in the morning before you take your first morning pee, the pregnancy hormone is easier to detect in concentrated urine, which would be from all night. Take the test and let me know. I don't know how happy or unhappy this news will make you, but i have to say that i really think that you are pregnant.
Throwing up every morning,cravings, frequent urination and sore boobs all point toward pregnancy symptoms. Get an HPT and take it first thing in the morning before you take your first morning pee, the pregnancy hormone is easier to detect in concentrated urine, which would be from all night. Take the test and let me know. I don't know how happy or unhappy this news will make you, but i have to say that i really think that you are pregnant.
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ok im gonna take the test on december 10th. if i was this would be happy news because half the doctors say i cant have kids and the other half say im extremely fertile. they cant make up there minds lol. but at the same time im scared because i dont know if my boyfriends gonna support me on this or not. were still together and he said he would but hopefully he wont get cold feet lol if i am.
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The key comment to this whole picture is you saying that this would be happy news. This tells me that you would be sooo happy to have a child. Right now, at this very moment, it's all about you and a possible blessed event, not your bf's, granted he is the other half of this story, but please don't base your final opinion on whether he "stays" or "splits"....you sound excited and that's most important right now.
He may get cold feet or he may promise you the sun and the moon with a silver fence around it, which is nice, but he may say one thing and mean another, maybe just to spare you and your feelings. Unless your married, don't plan your pending motherhood around your bf, he may very well walk, i shouldn't say unless your married as expecting dads run as well, forget that comment 8-| but i'm sure your getting the idea.
So go ahead and see if your pregnant, tell him and take it from there, one day at a time. It's your body, your decision. Good luck and please keep me posted :-D
He may get cold feet or he may promise you the sun and the moon with a silver fence around it, which is nice, but he may say one thing and mean another, maybe just to spare you and your feelings. Unless your married, don't plan your pending motherhood around your bf, he may very well walk, i shouldn't say unless your married as expecting dads run as well, forget that comment 8-| but i'm sure your getting the idea.
So go ahead and see if your pregnant, tell him and take it from there, one day at a time. It's your body, your decision. Good luck and please keep me posted :-D
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Okay, i just gotta say, WOW o.O I would have almost placed a bet on that one. Did you have blood and urine or just urine? Did you see the doctor or take an HPT? Now i'm curious %-) Let me know.
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Bulldog, i'm gonna talk to you as if you were my own, okay? I do not mean any disrespect to you at all, nor will i ever try to minimize your plight, but i answered your other posts regarding the fact that you love your bf/friend, but he can't really return the favor, at least not yet.
A baby will never keep a relationship together if one parent or the other doesn't want it. Granted a baby is wonderful, and yes they are cute and cuddly, but they do not a real parent make and this new being will not force one parent to love the other. I know it's sad but many ugly and loveless marraiges stay that way for many years because the parents feel guilty about leaving when the kids are so young, so they exist this way until the children are much older and usually out of school. That's sad. The kids see the friction in the family and they probably are witness to nasty words and fighting. Usually mom/dad do step out of the marraige for an affair of some sort, which the kids usually find out about thru listening to their parents argueing about it. Many times, one or the other parent will drag a kid into the middle and use them as a pawn, pitting one parent against the other.
Tho i thought for sure that you were pregnant, i am really happy that your not, not yet and not by this man. You would never be happy and you would never be content, you would always be waiting for the other shoe to drop, always leaving you walking on egg shells. Please don't be upset with me, i know you probably wanted to be pregnant, but you will be someday with a man who loves you dearly.
A baby will never keep a relationship together if one parent or the other doesn't want it. Granted a baby is wonderful, and yes they are cute and cuddly, but they do not a real parent make and this new being will not force one parent to love the other. I know it's sad but many ugly and loveless marraiges stay that way for many years because the parents feel guilty about leaving when the kids are so young, so they exist this way until the children are much older and usually out of school. That's sad. The kids see the friction in the family and they probably are witness to nasty words and fighting. Usually mom/dad do step out of the marraige for an affair of some sort, which the kids usually find out about thru listening to their parents argueing about it. Many times, one or the other parent will drag a kid into the middle and use them as a pawn, pitting one parent against the other.
Tho i thought for sure that you were pregnant, i am really happy that your not, not yet and not by this man. You would never be happy and you would never be content, you would always be waiting for the other shoe to drop, always leaving you walking on egg shells. Please don't be upset with me, i know you probably wanted to be pregnant, but you will be someday with a man who loves you dearly.
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yah that wouldnt be fair for the kid. maybe i wasnt pregnant for a good reason then. it woulda been nice to have a responsibility like that though in some ways though but i dont know if i woulda made a good single mom. maybe im happy im not now too after you put it that way. im not upset with you at all. but i dont know if i wanna be in another relationship again. trust has run me down with men. ive been abused so much and hes the only one that hasnt laid a finger on me or verbally threaten me or anything but hes a jerk in so many differant ways though by his attitude towards life and stuff. maybe one day the right guy will show up but hes gonna have to prove to me because i cant take anymore of this. im sorry if i sound upset im just an emotional wreck. well write me back cya
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OMG i went to the walk in clinic and apparently i was pregnant but i had a miscarriage now i think im gonna burst into tears :-(
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