My boyfriend put his penis in and we had sex for about a minute and then he put the condom on... He had peed plenty of times considering we had not had sex for awhile. What are my chances of becoming pregnant due to pre cum? Should I worry? I'm so scared.
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You don't say when this happened relative to your cycle.
- What date did you have sex?
- What was the date of your last period start?
- How long is your cycle (typically 28 days)?
The question of peeing relates to when he last ejaculated, not when you last had sex. He could have masturbated to orgasm shortly before your encounter.
Precum will always contain sperm with some men; others, never.
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My period ended about a week before this sexual experience. He had not ejacualyed for about a week before this. WR have had this happen before and I was not pregnant but i don't want this to happen. It scares me. I wake up thinking about it. I've heard that if the male urinates it flushes out any traces or spermatozoa. I can't even relax. I wake up thinking about it. In a month or two, I'm going to be out on birth control. I hate this feeling. I can't help thinking 'what if'. Please help me. Oh and my period last for about 4-5 days.
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Sorry for the Mia spelling and repeat. My phone won't allow me to see what I'm typing for some odd reason. Again, please and thank you.
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You are not helping by not giving the actual dates, nor the length of your cycle. That is critical. You talk of "about"!
"My period ended about a week before this sexual experience ... my period last for about 4-5 days." So your sexual experience happened about 12 days after the start of your period. If you have a 28-day cycle, that would have been at a fertile time. If you have a 30-day period, and it took place 11 days after the start of your period, then it may well not have been a fertile day.
It is true that "if the male urinates it flushes out any traces or spermatozoa", but that relates to residue spermatozoa from a previous ejaculation. However his pre-ejaculatory fluid might have contained sperm.
Why do you put yourself through this? Why have unprotected sex? Can you talk about what brought this about? It might help.
I hope this helps a bit, but please get back to me. I understand your concern. If I can help more, I will.
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I'm not sure of exact dates that's why I say about. I apologize. I' don't know why I do this to myself :( I hate this feeling. We usually always have protected sex but sometimes I just give in to letting him put it in for a little bit. I just hear some people say that it's not possible to get pregnant if the man had not previously ejaculated, which is what my boyfriend believes. but i just know that it can happen and it scares me. afterwards I can't even think about school cause I'm so worried I ruined my future. What are my chances of pregnancy knowing what I've told you? I'm sorry I didn't pay any attention to the dates. As soon as I get my period I just thank Jesus and tell myself it won't happen again so I don't even think about it. I hate this feeling.
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& when I say it's not possible to become pregnant unless the man has previously ejaculated, I'm strictly talking about pre cum. Not the pull out method or cum. He put it in for about a minute or two. Sorry for the about again. I'm just so scared.
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Sorry for not replying earlier. I was not notified of your post!
From the little you've said, I would think the chances are quite low.
You must take note of your period dates at least.
You must not allow your boyfriend to coerce you into activities with which you disagree.
With some men, they always have sperm in their pre-cum; in others never. Don't take the risk.
How old are you both?
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Thank you for getting back to me! Yeah, he had not ejaculated since right before my period. My bf is 16 and im about to turn 16 soon, so im about to be on birth control! Thank you for your information! That deffinatly relives my mind. I appreciate this very much.
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I did not have sex, he rubbed his penis in my vagina and m still a virgin so he tried to brk it but he didn't push it in, he tried for about 3 times and the date was 3 April.. Then after that we stopped then after 5 minutes the sperms came out of him and he wiped them and we slept n we were not close to each other.. On the 7th of April i had my period they last for six days so it was normal and before i have my period i always have sore breasts and spotting always so on the 9th i had stress that i was pregnant i started searching for pregnancy symptoms and it looked like i had all the symptoms then i stressed till i finished having my period on the 12th.. I stressed so much that i even lost weight, i ddnt have appetite, my breasts were sore, i was dizzy, i had pain in my lower abdomen so on the 16th i made a pregnancy test with my bf bcz he kept on telling that i wasn't pregnant so we dd it and the test was negative, i followed all the instructions very well and it was the morning pee.. So i was happy i started having appetite right at that minute so i ate.. Then came home fresh and i ate dinner because m a person that loves food, so that night i went to bed then started to search about pregnancy symptoms and i started stressing again n i had the symptoms on the 19th i went to a doctor but he told me he doesn't make blood pregnancy test but he told that i had stress so much stress and he gave me the stress pills n i told him all about the symptoms so m drinking the pills n i have nothing i feel no pain or wats so ever but my breasts have slight pain so they r only my problem and m irregular so i don't know the date but they could b on 6,7, 8,9 or 10 on this coming month May if m not pregnant.... So can i b pregnant???
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1.) if you are penetrated by a penis in any sort of way you are no longer a virgin if that's what you are saying.
2.) precum can get you pregnant. In some studies they have recently found that some men always have sperm in their precum. Remember this is not always true but very well could be.
3.) if you are so scared about being pregnant don't have any sort of contact unprotected. PLEASE USE protections (condom, birth control).
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I know you posted some time ago and I assume you have resolved the issue by now. But it is VERY unlikely that you are pregnant. nature makes it easy, but not THAT easy.
It is true that precum CAN include some sperm, especially as his body "ramps up" to orgasm, or if he is approaching a second ejaculation and he hasn't urinated between them to "clear the system" so to speak. But rubbing your genitals together, even bathing your clitoris in his precum (which feels lovely, by the way) is not likely to get you pregnant. In fact, he could actually ejaculate against your vulva and clitoris, and chances are still low.
There are all kinds of hazards and roadblocks for the sperm to reach their target (which is why he ejaculates so many of them each time), so the miniscule number that might possibly be in his precum would literally have an "uphill" battle to get deep enough inside you to make you pregnant. The interior environment of your vagina is designed to actually make it hard for the sperm to survive very long. This is kind of an elegant method of ensuring that only the strongest, healthiest, and most vigorous sperm get to the target. HOWEVER, if you are all wet from him (and yourself), then do be careful about slipping fingers into your vagina, as you COULD push any sperm present toward your cervix. Chances are still low, though.
And any number of other factors can give you tender breasts or irregular periods besides pregnancy. Speak to your gynecologist, as that could be a symptom of something more serious needing your attention.
It is true that precum CAN include some sperm, especially as his body "ramps up" to orgasm, or if he is approaching a second ejaculation and he hasn't urinated between them to "clear the system" so to speak. But rubbing your genitals together, even bathing your clitoris in his precum (which feels lovely, by the way) is not likely to get you pregnant. In fact, he could actually ejaculate against your vulva and clitoris, and chances are still low.
There are all kinds of hazards and roadblocks for the sperm to reach their target (which is why he ejaculates so many of them each time), so the miniscule number that might possibly be in his precum would literally have an "uphill" battle to get deep enough inside you to make you pregnant. The interior environment of your vagina is designed to actually make it hard for the sperm to survive very long. This is kind of an elegant method of ensuring that only the strongest, healthiest, and most vigorous sperm get to the target. HOWEVER, if you are all wet from him (and yourself), then do be careful about slipping fingers into your vagina, as you COULD push any sperm present toward your cervix. Chances are still low, though.
And any number of other factors can give you tender breasts or irregular periods besides pregnancy. Speak to your gynecologist, as that could be a symptom of something more serious needing your attention.
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