well me and my boy friend have been having sex for about a year now. my first time was with him, and for the first couple months it was fine i didnt have burning down there and i didnt hurt. but now every time we have sex it burns and he rips my skin down there. i need advice about this like soon cuz ive tryed everything to have less pain, condoms, lub, fingering, but nothing works it still hurts. and we were both tested for stds b4 we were together. :-(