Hey guys....
This is going to be quite long I think, but I really need some help I have no idea what's going on in her mind.
It all started on the 12th Feb the day before she went on holiday to France. I went over to her house and we were in her bed all night.... We made out and we went to 3rd... then we just lay there talking and it was really god. Then toward the end of the night she started crying, saying she didn't want to go away and shell miss me etc etc. And I felt the same. only i didn't cry i just felt it inside.
So i Next hear from her the day before she was supposed to be coming back home and she asks if i want to go over the next night, of course we agreed, but then her flight was delayed so I didn't go over. After that, she seemed normal up until that tuesday night, when she went all weird with me for about a week. I have no idea why or what i might have done.
Then, I get a text from her saying she has just been really tired and that her mum has been really harsh to her and she has been really moody. I bought that then, but i have n idea whats happening now. She went back to alost normal until about 3 days ago, and now i just feel like we have drifted apart, after what we had before she went away it's not there as much as it was. I don't think it helps not seeing her for a month, but that's another story.
She says she cant see me because shes busy every weekend until she goes away next saturday, when she goes away for a week, so i wont have seen her for 6 weeks then, and I'm missing her so much. You would have thought if she was missing me the same she would bend over backwards to see me, but she isnt, even though she insists she wants to see me too.
Sooo, do you think things will pick up again after she comes back from her next holiday, and what can I do in the meantime? Just let her be and just not talk to her? The last time she was like this was before we were in a "relationship" when she went to 3rd with this guy last august. I don't think she would do that to me from what she has told me in the past, but it's always a possibility. I'm not sure what to do I just need some help. She's being really hot and cold with me and it's really confusing. I don't want to leave her either, because i love her and the thought of getting another girl just makes me fell really weird.
If you have any advie PLEASE REPLY! :-)
Will.
This is going to be quite long I think, but I really need some help I have no idea what's going on in her mind.
It all started on the 12th Feb the day before she went on holiday to France. I went over to her house and we were in her bed all night.... We made out and we went to 3rd... then we just lay there talking and it was really god. Then toward the end of the night she started crying, saying she didn't want to go away and shell miss me etc etc. And I felt the same. only i didn't cry i just felt it inside.
So i Next hear from her the day before she was supposed to be coming back home and she asks if i want to go over the next night, of course we agreed, but then her flight was delayed so I didn't go over. After that, she seemed normal up until that tuesday night, when she went all weird with me for about a week. I have no idea why or what i might have done.
Then, I get a text from her saying she has just been really tired and that her mum has been really harsh to her and she has been really moody. I bought that then, but i have n idea whats happening now. She went back to alost normal until about 3 days ago, and now i just feel like we have drifted apart, after what we had before she went away it's not there as much as it was. I don't think it helps not seeing her for a month, but that's another story.
She says she cant see me because shes busy every weekend until she goes away next saturday, when she goes away for a week, so i wont have seen her for 6 weeks then, and I'm missing her so much. You would have thought if she was missing me the same she would bend over backwards to see me, but she isnt, even though she insists she wants to see me too.
Sooo, do you think things will pick up again after she comes back from her next holiday, and what can I do in the meantime? Just let her be and just not talk to her? The last time she was like this was before we were in a "relationship" when she went to 3rd with this guy last august. I don't think she would do that to me from what she has told me in the past, but it's always a possibility. I'm not sure what to do I just need some help. She's being really hot and cold with me and it's really confusing. I don't want to leave her either, because i love her and the thought of getting another girl just makes me fell really weird.
If you have any advie PLEASE REPLY! :-)
Will.
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Hey... I'm sorry to break it down to you like this but, if she is not the same anymore with you and if it gets worse, that means she probably don't want to be with you anymore but she's not tellin you, instead she's demonstrating. Honestly, if I was you I would not speak to her and let her come to you because you don't want to seem like your chasing her and still gonna keep doing it. Give her some space. Sometimes us girls like when a guy persists and shows that he only wants to be with that one person. Maybe she don't want to be with you and don't want to tell you or hurt your feelings. And I'm so sorry for putting it this way but as a girl, that's the way I see it. But if I was her, I would just go ahead and say what I really feel instead of sticking around and hurting the person. Well anyways try experiencing a new life with another girl eventhough it might be hard for you. Hope this helps
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hiya will, here's my take on it: she's mucking you about and thinks she can get away with it. My advice for what it's worth is this: see that you are hanging around in the sidelines waiting and worrying while she's out having a life (holidays etc). If that's how she wants to conduct her relationships: good luck. Start living your life too, and do it now. Go out, party and live. If there's any feeling left in her this is THE BEST way to find out, and then YOU can decide what you really want. But go and have fun, please. Life is too short to hang around being treated like a fool. That's not what you're here for! There's someone out there who's more fun, more honest and more respectful and they will find you, just be yourself.
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