So I have a Growth Hormone Defiencey and I had to take pills ever since I was 13 to start my periods. Im 18 now and at the end of may 2010 I stopped taking the pills I had sex on June 15th unprotected, I didnt think I could get pregnant then on July 17th I started getting bad morning sickness so I dont know I guesz I was in denial didnt think I could get pregnant so I didnt take a test. On Aug.6th I had like just blood on my underwear like I went through but it was just a one time thing after that I didnt bleed no more. I took a test da next day and it said positive, so on the 22nd of August I went to the docter they gave meh a urine test and it was negative and so was the blood test. So I thought I lost my baby the day I bled but I havnt bled since August I still havnt took my pills to start my period but today Oct. 20th I started bleeding and its like alot of blood and its real dark. Ive gained like 7lbz since da day I found out I was pregnant but Im not sure whats going on with my body... somebody please help meh I dont know what to do or how to explain it to the dumb docters because they dont believe I was pregnant since their tests said no so they never gave me an ultrasound or nothing like that.
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OK, for what it's worth, there are several posts on here from women who've been in similar situations. Indeed, I recently read that doctors believe that up to 1 in 5 pregnancies may end up in miscarriage, barely noticed by the 'mother'. If you've ever tested positive, or had signs of pregnancy, and delayed period; and subsequently had a 'period' that left you emotionally wrung out, more than was usual with a normal period, then there's every reason you may have experienced a miscarriage.
That's just my opinion as an experienced adult, but having had three partners (in thirty years) who've miscarried, and also from feedback and experience on here, if doctors can be wrong, I see no reason to dismiss the idea that you have indeed been pregnant and had a miscarriage.
The flip side is, what is the real issue here? Ultimately, it sounds like you don't really want to be pregnant, and if you've just had a heavy discharge, and tests are coming back negative (and you can take your own home pregnancy tests) then it doesn't sound like you can possibly be pregnant right now, so regardless of what you think of the doctors, or they think of your condition, it seems like the best thing would be to try to stabilise your body, get back onto a normal period cycle (if you can, depending on your condition, wrt the growth hormone issue) and keep going from there.
If the doctors insist, and the bleeding pretty much insists, that you aren't pregnant, then it's difficult to see how you can be concerned that you are: roll with it, get back to life as a normal, non-pregnant woman, and keep going.
That's just my opinion as an experienced adult, but having had three partners (in thirty years) who've miscarried, and also from feedback and experience on here, if doctors can be wrong, I see no reason to dismiss the idea that you have indeed been pregnant and had a miscarriage.
The flip side is, what is the real issue here? Ultimately, it sounds like you don't really want to be pregnant, and if you've just had a heavy discharge, and tests are coming back negative (and you can take your own home pregnancy tests) then it doesn't sound like you can possibly be pregnant right now, so regardless of what you think of the doctors, or they think of your condition, it seems like the best thing would be to try to stabilise your body, get back onto a normal period cycle (if you can, depending on your condition, wrt the growth hormone issue) and keep going from there.
If the doctors insist, and the bleeding pretty much insists, that you aren't pregnant, then it's difficult to see how you can be concerned that you are: roll with it, get back to life as a normal, non-pregnant woman, and keep going.
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