I am a 36 year old of 2 kids. Recently, I've noticed how chubby my cat is. Not that I feel insecure about it, but I thought something might be wrong? So, I read other women saying the same and being average weight. I guess I should feel it's normal then, being that I still have yet to lose my baby weight from 3.5 years ago. 20 extra pounds might be a part of the extra cushion. Ladies....u r not alone.