So whenever I am on my period, I always went with pads, but I decided to try and go swimming while on my period, and went with a tampon, it hurt like heck when I tried putting it in, and when I kind of got use to it, it hurt even more and very uncomfortable when I sat down, I couldn't stand 5 minutes with it in. It feels like there's an upper bone up above my vagina, and I can barely get a small 1 inch width toy in there without it hurting, but once I get use to it, it doesn't hurt, but when I pull the toy out, it hurts. I am afraid when I try and lose my virginity, my partner is going to be like "what the heck why can't I put it in?!" is there anyway to solve it???