I know that the average age for a first kiss is 13-14 (around 10 years younger than I am) and the average age to lose your virginity is 16-17 (around 6 years younger than me). Well... I'm 23. Though I've asked many girls out before I haven't even ad a date, so forget about a kiss and forget about sex. I've got few friends (most of them are online anyway) and don't have an opportunity to get out anywhere because of it. I'm coming to grips with the fact that I'm a loser and a failure socially, but recently a girl I went to college with has caught my attention and we've been talking and it seems like she likes me. Though, as she is pretty attractive and I'm fairly ugly it's unlikely, but on that incredibly slim chance that I'm right and she DOES like me I feel like my complete inexperience in stuff like this is long past where it would be considered cute or intriguing and into where it's going to make me look like a freak and highlight that I'm a loser. And I hate knowing that if I am with anyone even close to my age I am going to be a huge disappointment. And since time travel doesn't exist I can't exactly go back and fix it so I'm kinda stuck...
Though, given my appearance and ability to always screw up socially even when I think I am doing the right thing it's probably not going to happen anyway, but whatever.
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Well, I am in almost the same situation, so if you are a freak, so am I. Although I'm fairly sure there aren't any girls that like me. :-|
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No one I know around my age is like this. Everyone I know has had at least ONE date in their life by my age, even the people I thought were fairly unattractive in looks and personality and even the most socially awkward people I know. It's disheartening to know that you are the least desirable person out of every person you've met.
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The problem is your mindset. Every guy gets rejected a lot, from NFL quarterbacks to models. Go out there and become comfortable. All that matters is confidence. And if you don't happen to attract the usual three out of every hundred girls a guy approaches, it's because you still were not confident.
Why should you be confident? We are all fallible human beings. We are all equal. You know things the president does not know.
Finally, be different. A lot of people walk around with sourpusses on their faces and i dont know why. Be the salesman out there and be dominant. You are a salesman and you will smile at all girls and not let your thoughts that society dislikes you overcome you.
Bottom line: all you need to do is practice getting out there and being you.
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