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Here's the thing, I have three straight male room-mates and I want to kiss one of them. I have considered myself straight, but I do admit I have had thoughts about some guys I've known since an early age. I tend to be attracted to men's personalities however women's body's. I'm just turning twenty and it seems as though many people have a clear cut idea of what they like at an earlier age (it's either guys dig chicks and know how to advance physically/socially or they like dudes and know how to advance physically/socially out of instincts.) I, however, have hardly ever felt confident or right with women. Furthermore, i have many gay friends and i am not interested in the gay life/society, or rather, I prefer the life of a straight man.

There has only really been two girls that I have had the admiration for that is equal to the admiration I have had for some men and both of those lady friends of mine did not love me they way I loved them.

The advice I am searching for is what to do with my feelings for my room mate (we have year of living to go). (Ideally I would like my life to be either gay or straight because the way I'm operating now prevents anything from happening.)

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have you ever considered that you might be bisexual? Most bisexuals are more attracted to either male or female, but still attracted to both. I'm a bisexual myself, and my best advice is to explore it yourself, figure out how you feel about beeing with a man, you should consider the possibility. When it comes to your roomate that is another territory, if he's straight then he prophably won't be with a man, but of course I don't know what kind of relationship you have with him, if he's a guy you can talk to about everything, then maby you should think about telling him how you feel about him, you might be lucky. I know this may not help much, but it's at least an honset opinion. Oh, that's right, I almost forgot. You don't have to be a part of the gay community in that way even if it turns out you are gay. And I had no idea I was bi before I was 15 and had a crush on a girl at my school.
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Me too. But I hide it inside. I've experienced oral sex with more than 3 straight guys. My life is secret. Like u, the way I'm operating now prevents anything from happening. Advise me. In my region, being a gay will kick u off from society. It can even kill u by forcing to depression. What should I do?
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