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hi guys,

I'm a 17 year old guy, I enjoy life, but whenever I get confronted with love I feel like a part of me is missing, as if there is a large whole inside me...

I've never met a girl that really loved me, i haven't even kissed a girl yet, not even on the cheek :( had my first 'girlfriend' when I was like 13 years old, but she was pretty ashamed about me, she didn't want anyone to know we had something, due to that we could never date, because she didn't want anyone to see us. I really couldn't live with that so I left her, with pain in my heart.
another girlfriend just started something with me out of compassion and after 2 weeks she left me.

Since then I didn't have any girlfriend, i did fall in love twice afterwards, but both of em just dumped me in the friendzone, one of them is even one of my closest friends now.

some of you might think now 'well probably he's just a geek', well no, I'm really sociable, I'm a pretty good competition swimmer, I like making ceramic sculptures. My looks aren't fabulous, but not bad at all, due to the swimming i even have a sixpack, anyway no one ever told me I'm ugly anyway, i take good care of myself, but absolutely not too much. I'm also good at school without having to study a lot.
At least half of my friends are female, i don't know, i'm just more comfortable with them. But now they start having boyfriends and they almost have sex with em, while i haven't even kissed a girl on the cheek, it just makes me feel sad, I really feel like something's wrong with me, some reason that always gets me stuck in the friendzone. I feel like I should become some sort of a bad guy in order to find someone to share everything with, instead of being nice to everyone, but the fact is i don't want to become some macho, I don't want to attract girls that try to be someone they aren't..
It's like girls just want experienced guys, guys who kiss them without hesitating, and so on, and I'm just not that guy, whenever I love someone stress just keeps me from acting real, it scares em away..

I think girls see me like a really nice guy, but just absolutely no dating-material...

I'm sorry for complaining this much, thanks for reading anyway, I'm just so afraid I will stay alone forever... :(

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You will find love one day my friend...Trust me you are young.
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Hey

I think you sound pretty cool.Tell all your exes I think they are idiots. You sound like a perfect catch. And i think you should come to my school, I mean the ugly guys date get of girls and you sound like the type of guy that everyone would fall head over heels for. I know it sounds weird and whatever but im just trying to cheer you up. And don't worry there is someone out there for everyone, your girl is just waiting for you to meet her. You WILL get your Happily Ever After (Sorry i know how cliche that is but i had to say it ).

xoxo
Your New Fangirl
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Hey, you seem like the perfect guy, i am sure someone out there likes you, you will find that special one someday. I am 13, and i wouldn't call myself ugly but boys don't ever talk to me. I know middle school love means really nothing, but i like someone i can share things with and to just be me. You must be in the same situation. You will find " the one" someday. :)

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I think your name says it all. School girls do NOT go for nice guys. I don't know why but all the nice guys I have known in life (72 years of it) have had the same complaint about the girls they knew in school. When I was in school most of the girls dated guys who treated them like c**p. We even had a popular saying about it. you have to treat a nice girl like a w**** and a w**** like a nice girl.

That's just the way they are but they seem to grow out of it as they get older, especially after their first failed marriage.

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Hey bud just wanna say it's the non popular ones that actually turn out having a memorable relationship that is healthy.. I completely know how u feel just wanna say,u are not alone I'm the same way thanks :)
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Friend dont be so sad ur young .try to be confident that is the one thing girls like .
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