i'm not yet ready to a father

Well, the first thing that i am going to say is that you should have used birth control if you didn't possibly want to become a dad. Either she be on the pill or you to wear a condom. You didn't mention how long ago the possible conception may have occured. There is a pill out there called Plan B, which is designed for women who may have missed or forgoten their pill and engadged in unprotected sex. This pill must be taken within a 72 hour time frame. So if you had unprotected sex a couple of day's ago, you are probably good to go and grab Plan B. Plan B DOES NOT stop a pregnancy already in the works, so if she is pregnant, this will NOT cause a miscarraige.

If you got lucky this time and she isn't pregnant, you honestly need to rethink your sexual activities. Watch television at any time and you will see the advertising for condoms. Ribbed, non ribbed, small, large, lubed, not lubed, bla bla bla. So...there is simply no reason why a young man who does not want to become a father can not run up to their nearest Walmart and grab a pk.of condoms....really. On the flip side of this, it's not entirely up to you to avoid an unwanted pregnancy either. Make sure that your female friend is protected somehow and if not, then it's totally up to you to make sure that you are.

here her period is suppose to come on  19th or 20th and it will end 23th or 24th.. the last time that i had contact with my gf. its a month of September 25, 2011. ? it is safe to have sex with here? or it is a big possiblity to get her pregnant.? i think she is pregnant she even tell me if she have period right now.. actually i do not know how to use calendar mothod.. thats whay im very wondering for that. guys help me for this..:(