Infatuated with Guy friend.

Hi honey! When things are topsy turvy, it is safer to go back to what you know! You don't have to put yourself out there because it is your's and our little secret! You will go through this ALL the time, not only with him but other girls etc! It is normal, it's what is comfortable! It's fine for you to be there and help him, but also you need to know that this is YOUR time too! How did you feel with your girlfriend?

okay so i stubbled upon this post, so it is totally normal then to have feelings for the same sex sometimes? becuase i was so confused with that myself. But yet i always want to be with a guy and get married to a guy and have kids one day, but i sometimes would think women are hot...but your saying thats normal right!?

TOTALLY! And that is what ALL kids need to know! Before they plod themselves in the middle of a title! Most adults have had some sort of experience with the same sex - when they were in puberty! Either a thought, a kiss or sometimes a bit more, but most it's that confusion, that they think defines them which it isn't! People especially parents and teachers - don't talk about it because they don't want to confront it OR get asked if THEY went through this! We ALL need to be open - to a point - with our children, so they don't feel like "freaks" As I stated to this lovely young man "IF the end of the world was about to happen, and you had 1 moment to be with the person you loved most, would you imagine that this person was the same sex or different sex?" Because it's about hormones swhen you are younger, BUT about the heart moreso when you get older! Women are more likely to experience these feelings due to the fact that we are more open with our feelings! We can say "WOW is she HOT!" Can you imagine a guy saying that, about another guy? ;-) XD THUS society getting lesbians moreso than homosexual men! We don't get 'IT" so DONT label yourself, when you are a teenager anyway! And also just know you DONT have to have an actual experience to decide, it will just happen naturally - being more into guys or girls that is! Hope this helps!

So true!! there have been so many times where i thought something and then questioned if i was a lesbian because i thought of something, but then i would get confused because i would always fascinate and want to be with men. so thanks for clearing that up!!