hi. I'm 15 years old. My boyfriend and i started having about two and a half months ago. He is my first. It still really hurts when he first goes in. After awhile it stops but should it still hurt that bad? i just didnt know if my bodys just not used to it yet or what?
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Hi hon: It is probably lubrication that is lacking, hopefully your boyfriend is using a condom!!!!!!! So what you need now is some WATER based lubricant, it can be found in any drug store. ALSO there's this thing called Vagemitis, it is when you are anxious, your vagina muscles tense up and makes it harder for penetration. So it depends on how comfortable you are with having sex, soemtimes you might feel you HAVE to do it, but you shouldn't do it - you know what I mean? So subconsciously your body is saying "WOW buddy I don't think so!!!" If you are OK with sex, then it is the lubrication. This will make it not painful, NOW even after solving these 2 ideas, and it STILL is painful, you might have a yeast infection. But sort these 2 first OK? Good luck hon!
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