Hello. I'm 16 year old female and I some information are needed for me to understand some things. I don’t know how to start.
You see, about a month ago I felt something I have never felt before in my life. I felt strong wish for pleasuring my self.
I experienced a bit and try to masturbate for the first time. It was great but after doing it- I felt strong guilt and shame.
Now, I'm embarrassed to look my self in a mirror and even my parents noticed that there is something wrong with me. But the problem is that the “wish” is present all the time.
I don’t know what to do. I have heard a lot of bad stuff about this such as that it’s dirty and I would not be able to come any other way.
Please tell me what I should do. Is it wrong to think about this?
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First I want to tell you that you are definitely are not alone with this problem because it is very common youth problem. Many people find themselves filled with guilty and or shame.
A lot of woman and young girls still share your feelings, although it is now widely recognized that masturbation is normal common, and even very healthy.
The guilt probably comes from early memories of being told that touching yourself “down there” is dirty. This has its roots in church and bible teaching. You will not believe but boys and girls were discouraged from masturbation by the threat of blindness, madness and illness. Pretty amazing!
That stuff about “you would not be able to come any other way” is nonsense because masturbation has only good effects and it is the golden key to learning to orgasm.
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