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That is a tough situation. When you are married you give your trust, fears, hope, love, etc to another person and should expect the same back. Porn is very addictive and self-destructing. Unless, you two openly watch porn together than i see no problem with using porn to spice up your sex life or he is open about his porn activity with you. BUT, if he is doing this behavior by himself in secret then this is a problem. little secrets lead to bigger secrets.
You need to be very careful on how you approach him since it can make him feel worthless and it could also damage your marriage. I know as a guy i would be embarrased if my girlfriend or wife caught me watching porn. He could accuse you of spying, not trusting, etc and say that he is not cheating etc. You have to be honest and tell him how it makes you feel and establish porn rules if he is addicted.
There is a free software called K9 Web Proctection which blocks adult sites on all users on a PC.
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if i was in love with a fat hairy beast i would be disgusted by the looks.
but i would be in love with the person.
and in the end love will conquer attraction by a mile.
take it from a mans perspective:
if i found out my girl watched lots of porn, would i say stop?
hell no i would say lets watch and enjoy together...
and the fact that he organizes his porn has nothing to do with stalking or what ever you might think.
example:
i love listening to a blues artist called mel brown.
i have all his records.
does that make me creepy?
better example:
i enjoy collecting wallpapers
some are adult and some are of lakes and mountains.
i organize them of course.
so i dont accidentally open the wrong one.
i dont feel sexually attracted to a babe in a bikini.
but it certainly is better than a babe in a workers outfit.
sum:
he likes porn
he likes the attractiveness of the girls.
he does not love them.
like he loves you.
buy him a porn movie for christmas instead.
then have some fun.
dont judge him because he is a man.
honestly all men do it.
i bet obama has a collection to :)
and yes you are overreacting.
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I wouldn't be too fussed about that. Guys are physical and are physically attracted to attractive, sexy girls. Nothing wrong with that. That does not mean he doesn't love you. Watching porn does not mean he has fallen out of love with you. Please don't equate love with watching porn.
Like I said it is purely physical for the guy and they need that quick no fuss gratification from time to time. Just leave him be. He has a healthy sexual appetite and as long as he satisfies you let him have his "boy time" with those girls in those glossy magazines/videos
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