Hi. Well, I am thinking about taking mine and my fiancee's relationship to the next level. We want to have sex. Well, I wanted to wait to have sex til marriage but that is not working. When we foreplay I get aroused and I get the urge to want to have sex and I always find myself saying NOO. I am scared that it will be very painful. Everyone says " Oh, well if you love him, you won't care about the pain" and to just forget about it..
Well, since i masturbate, they say it "loosens'' up the vagina and it is easier to stic k the penis through. So if its looser and he wears a condom, will it most likely still hurt, or maybe just a little?
PLEASE HELP!
Well, since i masturbate, they say it "loosens'' up the vagina and it is easier to stic k the penis through. So if its looser and he wears a condom, will it most likely still hurt, or maybe just a little?
PLEASE HELP!
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i don't really know any statistics on the matter (if there are any) but i can say there certainly are a number of women who experience no pain or bleeding when they lose their virginity. most find it to be a relatively small pain if any i believe, though for some it can be quite painful. it all tends to come down to one of two things: 1) the hymen rupturing 2) vaginismus (tightening of the vagina due to anxiety). try and make as relaxed an atmosphere as you can and you should have fun. perhaps invest in some lubricant, that should help it to be an easier experience.
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regardless of whether you love him enough is beside the point. The first time i had sex it hurt. your fiance just has to be willing to wait, plus there is more to having a relationship than just sex. It does not hurt heaps but just because it is the first time and getting stretched it hurts a little.
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Well i have a very good friend, and she has told me that she almost felt no pain during her first sexual experience. Some women don't fill pain when they have first sex. But not everyone is same, so I'm not really sure that it won't be painful. Off course you can try to ease the pain by taking it slowly and gentle. Your fiancée seem nice and caring for you, so he should be careful during your first intercourse. Hope that all goes as planed.
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