my boyfriend can't maintain erection during sex

Me and my gf dont use condoms. We are both 15. Yeah I know young. But I have the same problem. Even without the condom. I can't feel much and lose my erection. I do feel anxiety because she has had one other partner can anyone help me over come this problem?

So... as this is an erection post I thought someone might be able to help me... I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we've been having sex for four of them. 99% of the time he keeps an erection... however, no matter what I do he cannot cum in front of me. He can masturbate but even that takes an hour or so...  (I've gone sex for 30 minutes, hand job for 45 and oral for 20 and nothing happened...) he feels like he's going to cum and he can feel it but just ends up with bad blue balls. Help :(

so my boyfriend and i have the same problem. we are pretty serious together, like marriage serious. I have had previous partners, but he hasn't. the first time we had sex a couple of months ago, he didnt cum. I thought it was anxiety no problem. but the second time, he couldnt keep his erection. I started thinking that it was a problem with me, that he wasn't attracted to me, but he insists it is nothing of the sort, and if it was he simply wouldnt try.  naturally, we tried again later and he still couldnt keep it. i could get him hard again, but he just cant keep it a long time. im really scared to think that he may not be attracted to me, but he was almost brought to tears telling me thats not it at all. he says he has no idea what it can be, it just happens.

I don't think anything is wrong that you need any enhancers I think it is the stress that you can't get your girlfriend off. I think your girlfriend needs enhancers or a shrink they may be underling things that blocks her from enjoying sex. I am a woman that had the same problem NO LIBIDO I started to see shrink and found out there was underling things. With the help of my doc and my understanding and patient husband we got through this and now I can say we have the greatest sex life I enjoy sex a lot. My husband says all the time The monster has woke. I can't get enough My poor husband Lol;-)

i have experienced this with my 23 year old boyfriend, we have been having intercourse for about 5 months now. At first the sex was great, and he would get regular erections. However now, it has become an issue with him, not being able to maintain an erection or even get one and has put some distress on our relationship due to the fact that he used to be able to get regular erections at the begininng of our relationship. i have spoken to him and communicated about the issue and he says "i dont know whats up with me". at this moment in time, im starting to think is he actually attracted to me, and is this the reason why he cannot get an erection or maintain one as he did at the start of the relationship. This is getting more of an issue everytime we become intimate and is putting alot of strain in our relationship.

Hi. i'm having a similar problem. my boyfriend and  i have been together for bout 2 years now and recently during sex he get soft in me. he really has been working really hard but this is new. I'm wondering if he is loosing interest in me. he is also 29.

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This doesn't seem to be unusual at all! But I have the same problem with my bf and I hate it. He always initiates sex and gets into it with a lot of passion and energy, but he only lasts a few minutes at the most. He either ejaculates prematurely or just goes limp and then all the magic's gone. The first few times, I was really supportive and told him it doesn't matter, and that I love him and that he's amazing. But after a while of this happening, he would get really upset with himself and as he already has low self-esteem, he gets really emotional. I adore him and I want to help, but the truth is I am horribly frustrated as he never satisfies me and I have to hold him while he cries about it. I haven't had a single orgasm in MONTHS. I've tried helping him identify the problem, but he just has no idea what causes it, which upsets him even more. And he doesn't seem to think it's fixable - he seems to have accepted that this is just the way it is. I have a high libido, but I just don't want to sleep with him anymore, because it just turns into an emotional disastrous mess every time. It doesn't feel worth it. What can I do??

Why do women tendbto turn thisbissue about themselves. Saying things like why dont u want me. Why arent u attracted to me? Women say they try to be understanding and thats not the point. Because at the end the women makes it about herself and bot the mans issues and why its happening. 8 know this. If I go soft during sec the last thing I would want to hear is why arent u attracted to me. Whats wrong.? Because the next time. All I will worry about is to try to prove ti u I am attracted to u and try to perform to prove I am. N in jthe process. I lose it. To much stress on top of the stress on how we feel about ourselves when it happens.

This is perfectly normal. I am 16 years old (male) and recently had sex for the first time. Obviously I was very nervous and could not stay hard at all times, I think it was because of the condom. While jerking off it felt way better but as time passed I loosened up and then when i cam it was very hard. I would just like to ask 2 questions is 7.08'' inch adequate and may the reason of not being hard be because you are not fast enough not have stamina because when you are masturbating you can be very fast??? thanks

I have the same type of issue if anyone can help.. Me & my boyfriend have a GREAT sex life but most days we will do it for a long time then he will ejaculate, but other times we do it for maybe 30 mins (shorter than normal) and he will get soft (even when he's inside me, so he never ejaculates) and I don't understand what's the problem. Is it something that I am doing???

May I ask what happened in the end? Did the problem ever get solved? Are you still together? This is really important for me. Thanks in advance.

Should we continue on having me try the 'kegel weights' for 6-8 weeks and see if things improve before I bring the idea of a penis band up to him? The starting weight for me is 3.5oz {heaviest I have; I can maintain it while standing, walking, climbing stairs and coughing}. He is younger than I and stated this has never happened to him before. I am embarrassed as it was the first time a reaction to intercourse like this happened for me; as well as frustrated and searching for a way to help either of us or both. He has stated he wants to stay away from sex with me for a while. :/

I have this same problem with my bf and its starting to piss me off he says its cause i get too wet but thats what is ment to happen in sex i am starting to think it is somthing else and not me its a strain

yeah the "too wet thing"!! My bf even asked me to drink less water along with the kegel exercises I am doing and when he decides we can be intimate again we will see if it helps. He is not even looking at other possibilities other than the fact I have have had three babies and this is more and likely the issue! I am wondering if maybe we are just not a good fit in this area. IDK but pissed off is an understatement!