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First of all, if you are wearing pantyhose for him and he's not responding, then he is any id**t. I would love it if my girl wore them for me! To hell with any pictures. Real life hose is ten times better then anything else.
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Your man does love you. He's addicted to pantyhose like most men to love pantyhose.
He looks at porn for the variety of different videos and pictures. I would say it is normal because men and women like to SEE variety but not touch as they have a conscience for you and the relationship.
Don't feel cheated on if he looks at porn and then asks you. He did that cause he didn't want to masturbate but enjoy you and your whole body (porn can't do that).
I don't think guys imagine their with the porn actress etc. he just gets hard for pantyhose and once he's hard - it's hard to turn the mindset off.
Enjoy your pantyhose with him but speak with him and let him know you feel cheated on but, let him know if you understand the urges. If you speak with a man like a man then he should conversate with you instead of feeling like a sissy caught jacking off, no guy likes to feel like that even as it is true.
You are the only person he can reveal his secrets to.
I love pantyhose too but we have to face it. Crossdressing and the love of pantyhose takes the man out of us and we have a hard time dealing with the secret fetish as many of us are staight men who have over active sex drives that crosses the male boundaries into female and we are scared to comprehend what we get turned on for as we may feel we are bi or gay but we are not only for the masterbation mode do we loose our conscience to be straight men.
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He has a pantyhose fetish and probably desires intercourse while his partner wears nylon stockings. It's quite normal for knickers to turn a man on, and in a healthy relationship he should be sexually attracted to you, fulfill his fetish or fantasy and ask the same of him.
Perhaps sometimes he just wants to see you wearing pantyhose and other times may want to make an event out of it and jump your bones and do the things that lovers do. If you want to turn him on while out with a group of friends, wear a pair of thigh highs or something and drive him nuts so by the time you guys get home he is uncontrollably drooling all over you with a raging stiffy. Wear crotchless ones and show him he doesn't even have to remove them or your skirt, etc..
Men like to have sex with women with their high heels high in the air and a woman's legs have been turning on men for many centuries. Pantyhose gives men erections and the sight of a short skirt and thigh high stockings is an arousing thing. It is natural however if he is masturbating more often than having sex with you I would be concerned, and perhaps wear some pantyhose for him once in a while and tell him you need his services etc..
Make him pay for your pantyhose and wear it for him so he can let loose and get his jollies. Habitual or marathon sex can cause many tears or stains on nylons so they won't last too long during intimate times, but you can have a pair or 2 stashed for spontaneous dirty sex on the living room floor for example.
Wear pantyhose for him and then ask him to do something for you. Orgasm together. Stay together. Masturbate together. Show him you want to wear pantyhose for him while you both masturbate with one another. Explore what makes each of you turned on. When a wife wears a short skirt after 35 years of marriage, it's not to feel a breeze, it's to turn on her hubby and hopefully have a quickie while the house guests are all sipping champagne after dinner talking about how the foliage is beautiful this time of year.
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I have the same fetish and have since I was a kid. Something about nylon stockings that drive me wild. I don't wear them but have swiped a pair or two or some panties to add some excitement to masturbating. The only thing better than having sex with a beautiful woman is having sex with her while she is wearing stockings, garters, high heels, crotchless pantyhose, or body stocking.
A woman's legs make men erect. Stockings turn on the average man. I can't count how many times I have masturbated to similar photographs. It's normal to get turned on with images like that. Maybe your husband is addicted to masturbation(?) I don't know. Sometimes I masturbate 3-4 times a day but it's usually when I am unable to sleep. Occasionally I will do it when I wake up. If I am looking at pics for inspiration they are usually similar fetish pics. I prefer to have sex but when it is unavailable I service myself, sometimes using pictures.
Wear nylons for him, lure him to you and make love to him. You need to figure out why he is masturbating so often, since it sounds as though you aren't getting laid as often as her jerks himself off. That is strange, why would he be with you but not want to have intercourse? He might be addicted to porno or masturbating alone.
He might also just have high libido. Like I said I off myself about 3-4 times daily. Even after sex or in between screw sessions I need to squeeze one out from time to time. I have a chronic hardon all the time though and if I don't do my business then I will be stiff constantly and that is embarrassing if on a date or giving a presentation at work.
It is normal to masturbate, and it is normal to be sexually aroused by pictures of women wearing pantyhose and garter stockings. It is not normal to deny partner sex if one is spending countless hours masturbating chronically by themselves while the other is in heat and neglected. I don't know why he insists on masturbating constantly since it sounds like you are attempting to harness his sexual energy.
If it's worth the time and effort maybe go see a sex therapist or even watch some fetish porn together and see if you can turn it into kinky real life sex. Tell him to stop masturbating and plead with him that you require his sexual attention. Tell him you are in heat, neglected, and need him to conserve energy and protein. Otherwise I would shop for a new guy.
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This sounds like normal solo-sexual behavior to me, a man masturbating to pantyhose and stockings pictures. Many people use porn or erotic photos to get off to and let's face it guys get wild for knickers and the liking.
What is not normal is the fact he is masturbating daily when you seem concerned/possibly denied intercourse from him. You probably need a counselor, or if this is resolved by now maybe somebody else can still use the information posted since the original author which seems to be some time ago.
Occasionally our significant others will work up an orgasm independently for one reason or another, often none other than simply being turned on and the other wasn't around at the time, however, chronic masturbation while constantly denying the other a moment of coitus is something to be concerned about.
Why does he not want to make love more often? Maybe his masturbation habits are his way of orgasming without having to put forth emotional commitment, either that or he is hyper sexual and/or needs the stimulating visuals to achieve his climax.
Other responses have suggested playing into his fetish and to wear some nylons for his sexual amusement and that is a good place to start before visiting a sex therapist. I think he is genuinely in favor of solo orgasming for one reason or another but you need to find out why, it may just be a phase. Maybe try masturbating together to a legs fetish video with both men and women on the screen engaged in full intercourse. He is obviously okay with watching porn and if you are too, perhaps you can get off together within the same niche category while you poke around and try to find out why he is denying you his passion in favor of pictures of random ladies etc.....
Good luck to you, he has a fetish and hopefully this is not the end of your relationship. Maybe talk to him about your fetishes or what kind of porn images you enjoy looking at when you are alone and feeling to satisfy the urge. Even better if you take it from a third party on a screen and live it out yourselves. Wear seamless stockings from time to time, tell him you are sexy too. Demand his attention or the relationship is doomed. He will masturbate himself into life of being single again, but maybe that is what he needs.
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