my man masterbates over images of ladies in tights/pantyhose every day

I don't believe he is a cross dresser, but he is just driven wild by the sight of a woman's legs wearing french cut nylons, pantyhose, garters, etc..... Many men get aroused by ladies strutting around in short skirts and high heels, and occasionally when one is alone and needs to tend to personal business (masturbate) it is to a potential niche of images or videos that excite the individual, in this case pantyhose, stockings, and leggy nylons.

Women get turned on by seeing a guy's bulge, and men get turned on by seeing a woman crossing her legs. Make that man yours again by wearing a pair of nylons and a naughty pair of high heels. Legs make him want to get his jollies off. Wear short skirts and stockings more often and have intercourse on the kitchen table. It is possible that is what your man wants but maybe he is too afraid or embarrassed to ask.

He isn't studying these images on the computer for educational purposes, he is having orgasms, possibly in multiples. This is somehow a necessary component of his sexual appetite and what he desires for when it is time to get himself off. You need to somehow convince him that your sex is more exciting than his lonely masturbation sessions by himself.

Masturbating from time to time is necessary for most couples, but it sounds like he is spending too much time tugging himself off in front of the computer and not enough time screwing his lover in a long term relationship. It may sound rude but is it possible that you can give him a bj while he browses his picture collection? Or power off the monitor and tell him you need his manhood inside you ASAP while you wear some kinky pantyhose. Demand his involvement in intercourse.

This is a topic near and sometimes dear to my heart.  I am married to a wonderful, sexy, gorgeous woman 13 years younger than me, who graciously indulges my fetish for nylons, pantyhose, etc. We have a decent sex life although with age and medications, maintaining an erection is not as easy as it once was in addition to being complicated by my fetish.  I'm almost 64 and have been haunted by the compulsive attraction of nylons since I was a little boy.  At times, having a fetish is a sort of blessing but more often than not, a curse of sorts.  It complicates relationships, at times, compromises daily living but it has also brought a plethora of pleasure, comfort and arousal.

Like the man who is partnered with the woman who started this thread I am addicted to nylon hosiery websites and collecting pictures of women wearing or engaging in sexual acts while wearing nylons.  While I prefer seeing an attractive woman in a picture, it's not the woman, but the nylons she is wearing that flip my switch.  My wife is not happy about my pornographic adventures but over time she has come to better understand it and seemingly accept it so long as I am careful (which I am sorry to say I am not always) about leaving a window/screen open that someone, especially our grand & God children, who visit frequently, might accidentally see.

I told my wife about my fetish well before we were married, but like my first wife, she was probably not fully aware of its depth and intensity until more recently.  We have been married for almost 14 years now.  We incorporate nylons in our sex life all the time and she even sleeps with pantyhose on because she wears them nearly everyday unless it's extremely hot or we're at the beach where they wouldn't be appropriate attire.

My perception is one of uncertainty about looking at images of nylon clad women:  I can see that it is a form of an addiction but I also believe most men look at some form of porn regardless of how fulfilling their sexual relationship may be with their female partners.  For me, looking at these types of pictures heightens my arousal and sexual attraction to my wife.  I am, and will forever be, monogamous in our marriage.

There are many good points on both sides made by the participants of this thread.  For me, I tend to agree that nylon porn is a release, an escape and a coping mechanism.  It does however, often take away time from my daily chores and errands (I'm retired), so I have a lot of "free" time to do what I want. My biggest regret is ALL of the time lost over the years devoted to my fetishistic activities.  I spend too much time and have accordingly wasted a lot of my life away.

Personally I have worked hard over the years with hours of therapy and counseling to strike a balance which is very often difficult for me to do.  I am blessed to have married such a beautiful and accomadating woman which certainly makes life easier for me but probably not for her although she likes wearing hosiery anyway so it's not that big of a deal to her.  She also appreciates the frequent foot rubs and attention her nylons bring from me.

My heart goes out to all the women and afflicted men who struggle with this. A fetish is pretty much incurable.  It isn't something I asked for.  It apparently developed around a variety of circumstances growing up that were what they were..  I can only encourage you to read up on sexual fetishes to better understand how and why they develop in order to find possible ways to cope with it within a marriage or relationship.

hey, try to jeer off him in pantyhose with feet ,sey my engl. is not so good ... try to do what he is looking at , but try to jeer im off and than ripperd jour pantyhose rhght in the midlle , its so emberesing for man to talk abuot that ..

Footjobs are a good thing, try and satisfy his fetish by partaking in America's 2nd favorite pastime. It may be all he needs and his looking at internet ladies may just be a symptom of his deficiency. Are you active sexually? Try having sex while wearing nylons or while out of dinner take off your shoes and work him off while sitting across from him under the table. Activate or spice up your sex life. He gets erect for women's legs and pantyhose obviously make him release his custard. Maybe he masturbates too much but it also sounds as if you 2 do not have a lot of sex. Wear what he likes and work him off. Tell him you want to make him turned on and need his sexual energy poured into you and not random internet pictures. Tell him you wanna see him ejaculate to your pantyhose and not some JPEG woman.

I too am aroused by pantyhose, stockings, etc... and frequently satisfy myself to similar images, but my girlfriend also wears what make me stiff and sex/footjobs are part of normal daily routines. A nylon footjob under a restaurant table is the kind of thing that keeps us together for going on 16 years. We have kinky sex and explore our fetishes together and in another 16 years we will still be screwing on the kitchen table and the hood of the car on the side of some rural road while she wears crotchless pantyhose with a skirt. This is normal sexual behavior for a couple.

My boyfriend of 8 years has the same fetish. i first suspected this about 2 years into our relationship when i would find traces of his DNA on my underwear (nylons stockings and hose). So long story short a glimpse into his desktop revealed similar types of fetish picture sites as described above, ranging from soft gentle and erotic to kinky dirty and lewd but all had a common theme that being all the women were always wearing fishnets, pantyhose, and suspenders, etc... women with long legs wearing tall high heels, crossed legs, semen stained legs and so forth.

He was using my nylons to get his jollies and to be honest it turned me on that he was using my pantyhose to make things a little more interesting when he was doing the deed.

We are still together and he still has his fetishes, as I also have mine. We accept that sometimes we independently masturbate at the computer, that is quite normal for one to need to self satisfy themselves sexually. We still have kinky sex and being open with our fetishes with each other allows us to achieve multiple orgasms and sometimes we both call in to work sick and spend the day making love in all areas of the house.

I am male late 30s and am guilty of the same thing. my girl dresses sexy and gives me sex up to 3-5 times a day, yet I do indeed also masturbate sometimes to kinky pics and videos. I can only speak for myself but although sexually satisfied with my partner who I indeed love, I tend to masturbate in between sex sessions and often to internet pics and vids.

Sometimes I have a chronic erection and like your man I also masturbate before work more times than not. Looking at pics online allows for a good quickie. I usually wake up with an erection and if I don't have sex or masturbate the stiffy will nag me all day and that is embarrassing. So I ease the tension and rub one out before leaving for work.

Keep dressing sexy for your man, I'm sure you make him stiff and all he wants is a quick orgasm when he is on the computer. I usually have sex about twice a day and more on other days. Even after multiple sex sessions I don't know how many times I felt the urge to milk one out by myself while she was in the shower even though we just had sex not long before. I guess i do it because i am still turned on but so is my girl so who knows if she does the same thing. I'm sure she masturbates to internet sites as well but as long as it's just pics and videos for selfish acts of solo pleasure that is ok with me. If she was doing it while browsing through a dating or hookup site I that would be trouble. I actually get turned on watching her masturbate, but I usually feel strange when she watches me. We have both caught each other in the act a handful of times and it is always at the computer. Usually we kiss the other on the cheek and let the other finish their business. It's nothing personal just a genuine sensation for one's self to get off while in solitude for a few quick moments. The flipside to catching the other masturbating at the computer is it can also lead to spontanious sex. Not even romantic, just a very strong necessary urge to mutually get off. It's the human thing to do.

I have a huge tights fetish too and I masturbate daily over pictures of them. I have a girlfriend and she knows about this but she is ok with it. I have a very high sex drive and this might be the reason why sex isn't enough.

Its OK I wear and smell girls underwear and masturbate have fun

It is normal for a man that has a pantyhose fetish to do that because je is afraid to tell you he wants to have sex with your pantyhose legs and cum all over them bery often and it is a sexual arousal for him. He is afraid you will reject him and his request. You will have to tease him with your pantyhose legs and tell him to hump your pantyhose legs and cum all over them. That is the only way to satisfy him sex doesn't satisfy him ot is that you aren't great in bed it is he needs something different that is satisfying. That is pantyhose, I have a pantyhose legs sex fetish myself so I know that is what I need too and I started at 5 years old masturbating with pantyhose to a sears catalog. Today I have pantyhose legs sex everyday and ordinary sex as well I am bery satisfied now but I still get excited seeing girls of all ages wearing pantyhose and heels.

I would love to jack off with your pantyhose and cum all over them for you.

Dressing stockings men has nothing to do with sexual orientation !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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This is a bit raw truth, no sugar coating, but I'm in my late 30s now so f**k it. Yeah I used to have the same problem. Of course that was 10 years ago with the explosion of internet porn. And I would have the pics up whilst saying stupid things like "I want you to wear this", and just keep showing her picture after picture of OTHER women 3 things:

-Never had access to so much porn before - it was all new.
-Was young and stupid, men don't know how to act like men until they become men. Boys will masturbate to the pics, men will have a real women, kind of like its supposed to be. If you're a guy and you're doing this STOP you want your girl to look at hundreds of guy pics while you make love? Or while you're away? Something wrong!!!
-All of this was fueled by meth. Take away the drugs though, and its probably young and stupid.
If you see a guy or girl, and they cant stop looking at porn pics and just keep saving them, chances are its drugs/drinking. Other than that, its young dumbassness without realizing that your actions affect others. Either way DUMP HIS UNGRATEFUL AND BORED/BORING ASS. You are too sexy a vixen to waste on him. Tell him "stop f*****g other chicks or im gone!!"

Side note: while the idea of taking your own pics might sound like time together, problems can happen should a breakup occur - don't do it! Don't hurt each other.

On another topic, I can stand how clueless many girls/women pretend to be regarding stockings/tights. That's how I found this blog. Really? You cant possibly imagine why guys look at your legs when your wearing stockings/tights/hose that accentuate your already sexy thighs, calves, ankles, and feet, while coupling them with strappy-heals, superhero-like boots, and long sweaters, ribbed and mini skirts. Really? REALLY? And yoga pants... If I see a man wearing sexy underwear, like 2xist, I'm gonna say the guy looks sexy, I'm not gonna say, "What? its just underwear" "I don't get it whats sexy about it" DUHHHHH, while getting mad for asking. COME-THE-f**k-ON. WOMEN STOP f*****g LYING ALREADY!!!! We know, that you know, you look sexy, they are not just a pair of tights or stockings. You have a sexy pair of legs, and and women's ass right? Right. Well now slip your legs into a pair of thinly layered silky stretchy fabric, so that each of your Heavenly curves is given its full and focused, worthy attention, encased in one of the softest almost milky-like layers, that turns your already delicious legs and ass, into mouth-watering candy. Sexy? Uhhhhhhhhh HELLOOOOOOOOOOO

It is normal to be aroused by the sight of nylons or pantyhose! Why not wear some to bed and see what kind of sex it produces? If you are aroused but he is masturbating you should somehow persuade him to save that spunk for you! Masturbate for a few minutes wearing pantyhose and get the crotch moist and then tell him your situation. Just tell him you need his services and show him where you are wet. You can even screw right though pantyhose if they are slinky enough. You can penetrate 4 inches or so and make a kinky game out of it. I have done it a few times with my girlfriend and at first it's weird but after a few tries it's as easy as dry humping except you really can penetrate her vagina while even if her crotch is covered with nylon. Not sure how we figured that out but it is wild.

Yeah it's pretty normal for men to become erect at the sight of leggy ladies and occasionally guys will be tempted to tug one out. Do you not wear pantyhose? Is he ever stiff for you? Some people just like the solitude of masturbating. It's quite normal to indulge in porno or kinky pics to get off with, and sometimes numerous times a day. My question is why does he prefer to yank his wank when he has a (presumably turned on) lady willing to offer her body to him.

the world revolves around you and anything that seems unsatisfactory must surely require therapy surgery or imprisonment for everyone else, or... if no one is being physically hurt get a sense of humour and chill the f out use your imagination and make some effort to satisfy his sexual desires or even cut a deal so evereyone has their price met in full, if you dont like it leave because sexual preferences only diminish when hormones do, so chemically castrate him and enjoy your pathetic subservient financially solvent drone, or wait for robots to get handsome and wealthy .geeeeesh!