Hello, I don't usually do this but i need advice from the open minded. Okay so my husband and i got married last year, so still newly wed, sex was fantastic then but as time passed it got a little.. bland, sometimes He would be hard and ready for me and in the middle of the act he would suddenly go soft and limp and it still really hurts my selfesteem sometimes i cry thinking that he doesn't find me beautiful anymore or if i wasn't tight enough for him the whole thing kinda killed whatever sexual feelings i have for him because i absolutely hate having to go through that terrible process of sex then no sex and i don't finish then he gets mad at me for getting upset but i can't help it!. Anyway now sex is... sex is like a obligation for me now i don't know if it's because of my implant that i don't crave sex like i use to or that our sex life really is going down the drain. I feel guilty and annoyed when he masturbates next to me or in the next room. He masturbates so much its getting in the way of our activities i know how dramatic that sounds but its true every day for work I'm up and ready all dressed and ready to go, for the entire morning while I'm getting ready he's on his phone, then five bloody minutes before we HAVE to leave he masturbates and that takes 10 and then he takes a shower we're always 20 minutes late to events and work its like he doesn't care anymore, i try to talk to him about it but he just says "i love you* and shrugs, it hurts my heart because he's using those words not out of love but to avoid a conversation . What i really need to know is how can i work on this to better both our lives, because honestly sex is uncomfortable and i have a hard time getting wet anymore he isn't a fan of using lube either so i just force myself to be turned on so i can please him, something needs to change because i love my husband and I'd be willing to try anything.
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