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It is important to use lots and lots of lub if you are verry tight as you explained...and gently, but slowly, ease one more finger in each time, do this gradually, like, one for a couple days, then move on to two, try that for a couple days, then try three when you are ready, and so on and so on...remember use lots of lube, and make sure his hands are wash, and his nails are cut. Cause you don't want to get a tear on the inside of the vagina, and have infection. I know you guys want to try and start having sex, but maybe now that you have decided to start having sex, waiting a little bit more, will get the anticipation even higher, and when you finally have sex, it will be so amazing and passion filled! And another thing, the fact that he's average has nothing to do with the fact that he can't get inside you. Weather to big, or a little smaller than big, it will work, just take it easy, and ease those fingers in one by one...let me know what you think about my reply. Glad I can try and help...good luck- Jill