When i masturbate i generally use one finger. I've not been doing it long. After a while if i hold it open i can insert a second one and then maybe a third. But it's a gradual process - 1 at a time kinda thing. Me and my boyfriend have been messing about lately. I really really want to have sex with him. We've talked about it and it seems like its going to happen soon. He turns me on so much; he's fingerd me and everything and that's been great but his penis seems so thick. And my hole is so small %-) I don't see how he;ll be able to get it in. I cant put three fingers in straight away without doing it gradually and his penis is thicker than that. I dont really seem to have a question do I - i just gues if someone can talk to me about it that would be great. Thanks.
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You may not think it will fit, but it will, really.
Time and patience is what you both will need.
Just make sure that you are really really well lubricated. Preferably your own natural lubrication works best. He needs to get you turned on real good, then try for intercourse. It may take a few tries, but it will work. Women just seem to be able to receive the male with no problem. If you don't seem wet enough on your own, try KY gel. You WILL need to be lubed, or it will hurt like heck.
And i am sue you already know to use birth control, right?
Time and patience is what you both will need.
Just make sure that you are really really well lubricated. Preferably your own natural lubrication works best. He needs to get you turned on real good, then try for intercourse. It may take a few tries, but it will work. Women just seem to be able to receive the male with no problem. If you don't seem wet enough on your own, try KY gel. You WILL need to be lubed, or it will hurt like heck.
And i am sue you already know to use birth control, right?
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Thanks for your help.
Will the hole just expand then? Or will we hav to push it in? I'm a bit worried about it hurting but maybe it wont because i'm always very lubricated. But if my hole's so small is that because my hymen hasn't fully broken yet? Also do you know if theres anything I can do to prepare myself and maybe break my hymen first? Don't really want to buy a dildo incase my parents found it lol but my fingers just nothing like a penis really.
Yes we use condoms already if we're doing something with him sometimes - would def always use them for intercourse. I'd like to go on the pill as well so i'm planning on going to talk to my doctor soon but i was wondering - do you know if you have to get parental concent to go on the pill in the UK? I'm 17. I don't particually want to ask my mums permision lol.
Will the hole just expand then? Or will we hav to push it in? I'm a bit worried about it hurting but maybe it wont because i'm always very lubricated. But if my hole's so small is that because my hymen hasn't fully broken yet? Also do you know if theres anything I can do to prepare myself and maybe break my hymen first? Don't really want to buy a dildo incase my parents found it lol but my fingers just nothing like a penis really.
Yes we use condoms already if we're doing something with him sometimes - would def always use them for intercourse. I'd like to go on the pill as well so i'm planning on going to talk to my doctor soon but i was wondering - do you know if you have to get parental concent to go on the pill in the UK? I'm 17. I don't particually want to ask my mums permision lol.
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Hey hun!
You don't need parental consent to go on the pill in the UK. Book yourself an appointment at your docs, or go to a family planning clinic and neither of them can tell your mum.
If she ever finds out you are on the pill you can always say its to help with your periods/skin!!!
don't worry about your bf fitting - a baby can come through there after all! be prepared that you MIGHT feel some pain - not everyone does, and if you do just ask him to go slower.
as for your hymen, it may already be broken or may break during sex (and you may bleed a little afterwards as a result). i wouldnt try breaking it yourself.
take care :-)
You don't need parental consent to go on the pill in the UK. Book yourself an appointment at your docs, or go to a family planning clinic and neither of them can tell your mum.
If she ever finds out you are on the pill you can always say its to help with your periods/skin!!!
don't worry about your bf fitting - a baby can come through there after all! be prepared that you MIGHT feel some pain - not everyone does, and if you do just ask him to go slower.
as for your hymen, it may already be broken or may break during sex (and you may bleed a little afterwards as a result). i wouldnt try breaking it yourself.
take care :-)
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Hey, i have the same problem, me and my boyfriend mess around alot we've done everything except intercourse, we've tried and it just doesnt happen as his penis is to thick and my hole is too small, he turns me on so much, but it never works, he can stick three fingers in but they always cross over and his penis is thicker than that, i need help!!
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HI ,
I have the same problems with my wiffe just married recently, we just trying so hard, but just couldn't get in .. but her hyman already broken on our first time having sex ... But we found difficulty in having a normal intercourse... any good advise ? we've try to use the KY ..but its still the same ..
I have the same problems with my wiffe just married recently, we just trying so hard, but just couldn't get in .. but her hyman already broken on our first time having sex ... But we found difficulty in having a normal intercourse... any good advise ? we've try to use the KY ..but its still the same ..
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sounds like your case could be vaginismus, which is in involuntary tightening of the vagina. is she stressed/anxious about having sex? you need to make her very comfortable with the whole situation. be patient.
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Hey, I just graduated high school, and my boyfriend and I thought it would never work either, but the other poster is right, with time it will work. He had to get me super turned on first so i was well lubricated and we put on the condom and gave it a shot. The first couple tries didn't work because we wanted it to and were forcing it, which he barely got his head in and it hurt, and hurt him too. but we kept trying and it worked best when we were both really turned on and completely relaxed, with our goal not to have penetration, but to receive pleasure. Make sure you have great communication because once he starts to get in, it will feel really good for him, but make sure he doesn't start speeding up before your ready :-) and remember, try to have fun, its emotional and may hurt a bit, but once your over the hump of the first few times, it will be very enjoyable :-D
Also, the fingers may not fit, but there is something special about the penis that even though you don't think it will fit, it does because of its unique shape and head that is made to ease into penetration.
Also, the fingers may not fit, but there is something special about the penis that even though you don't think it will fit, it does because of its unique shape and head that is made to ease into penetration.
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