Hi there I'm 33 and I am married.... My wife recently found out that she has chalmydia and is blaming me. I don't cheat on her and I am well a that it's an STD but is possible that she got it from not wipinv property or not wrinsing well in the shower
She can not get chlamydia from not wiping or rinsing.
When was she last tested? When were you last tested? It's called "silent" because it often presents with NO symptoms.
She could have had it for years, so could you. Get tested yourself, now.