My partner and I have been having protected and unprotected sex for half a year now. Back in July we became exclusive.
I tested negative in February after having sex with them, and again on June 15th after having sex with other partners (protected but two instances of broken condoms) to ensure I was clean.
Since being exclusive with my partner, I didn't get tested again until Oct 13th and there was a month of no vaginal sex (only anal for the month) and just after getting an IUD on Sept 27th we had unprotected vaginal sex (Oct 8th) and I stupidly thought, "oh I've been having unprotected sex with the same person since my last test that came up negative there's no way..." in hindsight - always get tested anytime you're in... anyway.
My partner was tested 2 years ago and since apparently has no full memory of the different people they had sex with but knows they had protected sex with two others in April & May (as I had protected sex with three others in those months).
They went and got tested "three weeks ago" possibly the last week of September and got a call this past Monday (Oct 10th) that they tested positive for Chlaymidia, they got treated and informed me)
I went and got treated for it as well, and got tested on Oct 12 hoping it would come back negative. I got a call on Oct 16 stating that it did come back positive. I haven't shown signs and feel it may have been the latest time we had unprotected vaginal sex that I got it from them.
Is it possible for my partner to have had it from year ago and I somehow not get it from them until now?
Over the course of the past 6 months I've gotten a UTI, yeast infections, and BV - now this. Obviously condoms are 100% must and I plan to make myself and my partner be tested every month for the next 6 months if I decide to not end the relationship.
They claim they didn't cheat since June 15 and us becoming exclusive, but science is hard to deny.
Is it at all possible for my partner to have had it from a year ago and I just not get it until now?
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Hi guest,
Yes. He could have had it for a long while before you contracted Chlamydia.
Like any infection, not everyone exposed gets it immediately.
Ask yourself, do you trust him or not? That's the real issue.
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