im 15 male and am a virgen at pretty much everything... ive never had a girlfreind ever that wasnt long distance but ive sexted and sent pics out and stuff :| im just idk very nervous around girls like i'll talk and rarely flirt but i always think and am usealy right when i think they dont wann be in a relasionship with me......... please help cause it bothers me that the farthest i got is a hug from a female friend like i'll talk to a girl online and flirt and everything but in person im nervous to flirt ..... i'll tell myself ok go talk to he and stuff but i get to nervous like
ex. i walked up to my bestfreind and was about to ask her for a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheek at least and i got her attention and just asked her if she wanted a hug. but when texting i sent a message saying *kisses your hand* (actions like sexting) and she sent back thanks your sweet then the next day i went to as again but lost my cofindence and just like sat down next to her and hugged her .....
ex. i walked up to my bestfreind and was about to ask her for a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheek at least and i got her attention and just asked her if she wanted a hug. but when texting i sent a message saying *kisses your hand* (actions like sexting) and she sent back thanks your sweet then the next day i went to as again but lost my cofindence and just like sat down next to her and hugged her .....
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man, i totally understand u, sometimes when I was younger I felt the same, but the only thing u need is to get over it and go straight for her, that is the only way to let ur mind know it is no big deal. So, remember to stay calmed, breath deeply, and take a strong decision; it wont happen nothing. Be brave and good luck dude.
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I'm a girl and I just want to say:
Especially if she's your best friend, she'll be totally happy if you ask her. I have a total crush on my best friend (a guy) and I wish he would ask me something like that. So just gather your courage for ten seconds and you (and her) will be happy that you did.
Especially if she's your best friend, she'll be totally happy if you ask her. I have a total crush on my best friend (a guy) and I wish he would ask me something like that. So just gather your courage for ten seconds and you (and her) will be happy that you did.
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I have this problem too, only the other way around. I'm a female and I can talk to guys online and am totally ok with it, but in person I just freeze up. Atleast you 19MWHB96 can get a hug from a girl, I can't even look them in the eyes, especially those I like. I become like a deer in the headlights, practically paralyzed.
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I'm 14 and also I have this type of trouble also I think no girls like me *lonely for ever* );
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