Hi, I didn't see a area for dating. I saw this general section I don't know if any mods would mind if I ask this here. If it is feel free to close this thread i guess :-(.
Ok, I really dont ask for dating tips as I figure most of them myself or if in dobut ask my friends. The problem right now is, there is a girl that I really dont know well, shes in a grade higher(im in hs)and I dont know her friends. Shes different, :-). I just don't know how to start talking to her, once I got that down I think i got it from there. I usually start talkin to girl by hanging with her friends etc. but this girl is different, i dont know her well,or her friends and i dont want to ask my friends for advice. Cuz i dont want them to know right now of who I like.
Any advice?
Thanks!
Ok, I really dont ask for dating tips as I figure most of them myself or if in dobut ask my friends. The problem right now is, there is a girl that I really dont know well, shes in a grade higher(im in hs)and I dont know her friends. Shes different, :-). I just don't know how to start talking to her, once I got that down I think i got it from there. I usually start talkin to girl by hanging with her friends etc. but this girl is different, i dont know her well,or her friends and i dont want to ask my friends for advice. Cuz i dont want them to know right now of who I like.
Any advice?
Thanks!
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Hi Future,
Well there is Relationship, Friendship and Family problems forum, maybe that would be appropriate forum for this. But if you would like me to leave this topic here in Small talk for now, we can make an exception. I think we have many good members visiting Small talk, that will be able to give you an advice for this issue of yours.
Well now concerning your problem, if I would like to meet a new person usually you start the talk with introducing your self, or just to notice that you have something in common. So you can have a thing that is similar to you both and thing that can make a connection between you two.
I have to tell you I am not an expert on this, I hope I was able to help you in any way. :)
Well there is Relationship, Friendship and Family problems forum, maybe that would be appropriate forum for this. But if you would like me to leave this topic here in Small talk for now, we can make an exception. I think we have many good members visiting Small talk, that will be able to give you an advice for this issue of yours.
Well now concerning your problem, if I would like to meet a new person usually you start the talk with introducing your self, or just to notice that you have something in common. So you can have a thing that is similar to you both and thing that can make a connection between you two.
I have to tell you I am not an expert on this, I hope I was able to help you in any way. :)
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Women are not difficult to talk to. It's mostly in your head when you want to talk to them but psych yourself out. Here is what I suggest.
Talk to her. Then try to find out what she's interested in without saying, literally, hey what are you interested in? Then if you have something in common, see if you can ask her if she wants to do that hobby or interest together. Congrats! You just asked your first girl on a date. What do you think?
Talk to her. Then try to find out what she's interested in without saying, literally, hey what are you interested in? Then if you have something in common, see if you can ask her if she wants to do that hobby or interest together. Congrats! You just asked your first girl on a date. What do you think?
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Thanks for the replies.
I have talked to a girl before/dated. It's just this situation is different, I mean I don't know any of her friends or her really. Generally how I ask girls on a date is hanging with a bunch of friends and start hanging with her. I'll try to talk to her, but the problem is how to approach her. I mean I'm not "scared" but I just don't want to say "Hey my name".
I have talked to a girl before/dated. It's just this situation is different, I mean I don't know any of her friends or her really. Generally how I ask girls on a date is hanging with a bunch of friends and start hanging with her. I'll try to talk to her, but the problem is how to approach her. I mean I'm not "scared" but I just don't want to say "Hey my name".
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It just seams that you will have to find something similar with her. Or try to find some similar friends.
Do you know anybody that can introduce you to her?
Do you know anybody that can introduce you to her?
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I am starting to get ideas, we both do track and if somehow I can talk to her I run after school I can invite her along. I just found out one of my close friends who is a girl knows her so now I kinda of see the light :-).
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Well there you go. I hope that you will give as an update on your progress. :-)
Good luck
Good luck
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its going well...I am just get really nervous around her though. And nervous of what to say to her.
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So it means that your are now talking to her on a daily basis. Very good. Well just keep you charm on a high level. :-)
Keep us posted.
Keep us posted.
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Well, those nerves are good because they mean that you care about her or at least you care about getting it right with her. And that's important, I think. How are things going?
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Sorry guys, I didn't mean I was actually talking to her I mean't I couldnt talk to her. Well I talked to her today and we really didn't say much, she kinda walked away. Oh know... I kind of feel like an id**t now :?
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Hello,
First of all, i would like to congratulate you. :D Don't be shy, take the initative and the first step. Interact with her more and show her that you care about her. Then when you think the time is ripe, confess to her. There's nothing to be shame about liking someone.
Here's a few articles that you might find it useful. It give tips and advices about dating.
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First of all, i would like to congratulate you. :D Don't be shy, take the initative and the first step. Interact with her more and show her that you care about her. Then when you think the time is ripe, confess to her. There's nothing to be shame about liking someone.
Here's a few articles that you might find it useful. It give tips and advices about dating.
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Hi Future12345,
Well you don't have to rush things. Lookhealthy has a point of telling her your feelings, but I wouldn't rush tings at all. It might go a wrong way. And you don't want that. Just don't get too nervous and be your self.
Well you don't have to rush things. Lookhealthy has a point of telling her your feelings, but I wouldn't rush tings at all. It might go a wrong way. And you don't want that. Just don't get too nervous and be your self.
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Some how, she figured out I liked her( I think i have a loud mouth friend to deal with...) Anyways, one of her friends that I know(mentioned before in a couple posts before) said that she wants to talk to me, I'll see how this goes.....Makes me feel better :-D.
I'll take things slowly, I am just nervous of what to say to her since I barely know her. If I figure that out, I know I'll loose the feeling of shyness. I mean, when I met my friends I was kinda shy around them but I grew "use" to them. Only problem is when I'm around a girl I like it's 10x worse lol D:.
I'll take things slowly, I am just nervous of what to say to her since I barely know her. If I figure that out, I know I'll loose the feeling of shyness. I mean, when I met my friends I was kinda shy around them but I grew "use" to them. Only problem is when I'm around a girl I like it's 10x worse lol D:.
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Just talk to her. I know that sounds silly but just do it. You have to bite the bullet and all the fear is in your head. What are you really afraid of? That she is going to not want to talk to you? That is literally the worst that can happen! ANd if that happens, she has the issue, not you.
Did that help boost your esteem at all?
Did that help boost your esteem at all?
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