Hello,
I am 16. I have never been fingered before but, when my boyfriend was close to fingering me last night (he was only inside me a tiny bit) I felt a lot of pain and asked him to stop. I know i may have to expect some blood (i'm still a virgin) and his nails aren't long either >.< Is it normal to feel a lot of pain? Would it help if i took panadol before hand?
Please help!
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It hurts because your vagina is very tight. It will most likely be painful or very painful during your first time. I don't know what panadol is but if it is a muscle relaxant, it wont really help. If it is a strong pain killer like Oxycontin you may not feel anything even remember your first time. Be safe and make your boyfriend wear a condom.
Good luck
Good luck
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@ rapidfire: Actually only fingering is what my boyfriend did, What I'm I suppose to feel/ reaction towards that?
(he is my first boyfriend, He is the only person who did that that's why I can not explain how does it feels and what reaction i have)
is it normal after he fingered me i felt sort of stomach pain inside mine? It feels I'm about to vomit! I do even like more after he do that fingering, I want him to place his hand/palm in vaginal just covering or holding it. I makes me feel relax/ comfortable
is it normal?
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Kickers,
You should be feeling him enter you with either a finger or a penis. Your reaction is going to be to tense up or pull away. It is somewhat the same reaction to someone sticking you with a needle. You pull away.
You may feel sick after he fingers you. It is a new experience, one that you are not used to and it may take time to get used to it. I would suggest trying to finger yourself. It then allows you to be in control and you can go as fast or slow as you want. If you are comfortable with masturbation by yourself (from your other posting I assume you are), you can see if you like it or if it turns you on or not.
You are probably comfortable with a hand over your vagina because you are then in your comfort zone. Its what you like and there is nothing wrong with that. It is completely normal.
I hope I have answered your questions, if not message me or post again.
You should be feeling him enter you with either a finger or a penis. Your reaction is going to be to tense up or pull away. It is somewhat the same reaction to someone sticking you with a needle. You pull away.
You may feel sick after he fingers you. It is a new experience, one that you are not used to and it may take time to get used to it. I would suggest trying to finger yourself. It then allows you to be in control and you can go as fast or slow as you want. If you are comfortable with masturbation by yourself (from your other posting I assume you are), you can see if you like it or if it turns you on or not.
You are probably comfortable with a hand over your vagina because you are then in your comfort zone. Its what you like and there is nothing wrong with that. It is completely normal.
I hope I have answered your questions, if not message me or post again.
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Thanks @ rapidfire
So far I was very thankful in your explanation! thank you very much!
as to the issue of my emotions towards fingering scenario is that goes like this:
(in the mood of sexual pleasure by fingering)
boyfriend: (inserted his finger towards mine) How does it feel?
kickers: I don't know
boyfriend: Do you feel something strange? Hot? aroused? what?
kickers: I don't know, all I know I feel your finger inside mine.
My point is I don't know what feeling I might to feel. Yes I do feel the pain at all cause I feel his fingers but the sexual pleasure
No?! just because I don't know how was that
Sorry! :( but I do admit I'm to fool for that :(
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You should be aroused by him fingering you. Or you may have a tingling or butterflies in your stomach feeling. He will have to repeat the in and out motion with his feeling before you start to relax and start to feel anything. I don't know of any other way I can help.
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Hello,
thanks so much :)
i just wanted to make sure everything is okay >.< it was very reassuring :) @rapidfire10000
Goodluck in finding your answer @knickers i hope it all goes well :)
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YEAH! i do feel butterflies in the stomach :) maybe that the feeling when I feel stomach pain :)
thanks @rapidfire :)
@guest :) Iwas confuse who are you and what is your msg all about :)
well thanks also! yes I'm all fine now!
thank you both :O
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Hey I fingered my girlfriend and she is about 17 years old. She complains that she was having too much pain when I take my small part of finger into her vagina..And I did not entered my whole finger into a long distance.. I just inserted a small part about very short distance into her vagina even bot touched her cervix.. . but I want to know that till when it will be like this??? And what should be done to reduce her pain??
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