I lost my virginity on a Sunday night and its been either itchy or burning ever since and its been a week. It's also very swollen, but there's no unusual discharge or smell so I'm not sure what it could be. Please help its so unbearable and also I really don't want to tell my mom because we're not close at all and I don't know how she'd react if I told her I lost my virginity, I'm 17. We used and condom and I don't think the sex was too dry or anything and yes it was painful but it hurts more now. I don't really think its a UTI either. Please help I'd rather not see a doctor.