purple and different size labia minora

I have the same problem and it grosses me out as well, though my partner doesn't seem to care. I don't know if it's normal, so does anyone know?

It's absolutely normal.I also have it but it does not affect sexual life.My b/f likes it and,performing oral sex on me he likes to suck on bigger one.So,girls,guys do suck...lol!

I have the same thing too. What causes that does anyone know?

eeehh i have this too ;// and i hate it
boys always say that they want to have oral sex , but i'm scared that he'll be grossed out
or wont like it .
i wish there could be some other way to make it smaller other than surgery -___-

I have the exact same problem and I have never had anyone see me "down there" Im personally worried.  I started maturbating super young too and I feel like none of the other girls I know will have it. All the guys in my future will just compare me to them.

Sometimes I feel like i just wanna chop it off with scissors.

Hey I have it too.. It's quite long about 1.5 inch n dark and soft I know it looks weird but actually it's awesome the naked pics of u look way better otherwise it looks lik a naked Barbie doll with nothing down there
Trust me there is nothing wrong with u..for me it's the most amazin thing ever.. Totally turns me on if I rub it.. All the boys I hav been with are crazy about it.. They jus dont stop blowing.. This one guy wud enjoy blowin so much playin with it suckin on it that he won't even bother to jerk off jus so into it... And fingering gets borin after a while so guys love to rub it and I hav had way more orgasms that way.. Believe me guys are crazy about it. Lickin A plain vagina is boring u jus lick it lik ice cream but this u can suck it hold it in ur mouth n shake ur heads play around it this that !!! each one of them was crazy for it... Guys wud actually enjoy blowin so much that they wudnt even think of sex this one guy everytime he wud spend atleast 45 min-1.30 hr down there am all done n tired and keep sayin ya ok enuf let me do u now n still he won't budge this one time in 45min I had 4 orgasms thanks to my deformity.i felt lik I was gonna pass out head was spinning lik crazy took me a few min to catch my breath. One more thing guys lik shift the underwear n rub it n stuff for a bit before the clothes come off lik a foreplay thingy... A plain vagina has nothin interesting for a guy other than the hole !!they love it when they find something to play with.. Jus touching it once gets me started!! One more thing every 2 in 5 girls hav it it's more common than u think but people don know how to use it yet they think it looks weird but it feels amazing n guys go crazy for them it's lik finding a treasure... Plz don b ashamed of it believe me all the men I hav been with jus wont stop blowing n m pretty open so I ask them how it feels do they lik it y do they like it hav they seen it before n stuff like that.. Consider it an advantage over others..when u Do it missionary style and the guys skin above the penis rub against it it's lik someone is f**** n feelin u up at the same time I owe all my orgasm to it...first u hav to be confident about urself and only then ur man can make a move cuz boys think wat if she thinks m some freak or wat if it hurts or it has no feelin n I keep rubbin it for no reason once u are ok with urself only then the man will b completely comfortable in bed

OMG, no! Don't cut yourself, girl. You've got it all backwards, anyway. Don't try to make it smaller. Start working on stretching the other side to match. Stretching and rubbing it, especially in a hot shower or bath will help increase the size over time. You need to be diligent, though. Do this 2 or 3 times a day, for maybe ten minutes each time. It will take some time, but you will see results. And best of all, it's not like rubbing your labia is unenjoyable. ;-)

Elsewhere on this site, someone else also suggested using a vibrator would help. I haven't done this myself, but what's the harm in trying, right?